Ever regret being a teenage s**t?

Question

Do ever regret being a s**t aka sending photos of yourself topless, flashing boys, losing your virginity before marriage, etc.

If you haven't done any of those things do you find it acceptable for a 13 year old girl to be sending photos of herself topless to boys, flashing perverted boys or to lose her virginity?

Also, we are friends with a girl that plans on doing these things and we don't want her to get hurt. She doesn't want us to tell her parents but we don't know what to do. Please give us some advice that we can tell her and answer these questions. Hopefully you can tell us how you regret your past experiences. Thanks so much!

Answer 1

I know a 15 year old girl that sent nude photos, has had s*x dozens of times, once in school (she is 15 now, but did this even when she was 13)... she doesn't think its bad...

she is dumb and everyone knows it. some people are just like that

Answer 2

Tell her parents. She'll only get hurt. So many horrible things could happen to her, and she's just too young.

Answer 3

Hello,

I am assuming there is a group of girls there asking this question, so here is my answer. I do regret being a teenage s**t for so many reasons. I have flashed myself before but I haven't sent photos of myself topless or lost my virginity as yet. I am 13, by the way.

I do think it's unacceptable for any minor to be taking photos of themselves nude. That's child pornography which is illegal or at least, very bad if it gets into the wrong hands. Like I said before, I have flashed myself but I knew my limits. I know what I did was wrong and hopefully, I wouldn't do it again. Just imagine what my parents would think if they knew I was flashing perverted boys. Yeah, I'm guessing they'd be ashamed, dissapointed and even embarrassed if the word got out. I don't think I'd be able to look my parents in the eye if they knew that I was flashing my body in that type of manner on purpose. I think it's VERY unacceptable for a 13-year-old to be having s*x because she's hurting herself. Sooner or later, she's going to realize she should of waited for someone who she truly loved instead of just giving in. s*x isn't just about pleasure. Yeah, I know, it feels good but that isn't what s*x is all about, it's about love. It's just another way to express love hence the nickname 'making love'. That's why we're suppose to wait until marriage to have s*x.

I know you don't want to hurt her, but she's going to end up hurt anyway. Either having s*x may lead to pregnancy or an STD and her parents will find out or something even worst will happen. Trust me, you cannot stuff as serious as this from her parents. You ought to show her what I am writing now. It's an absoloutely HORRIBLE feeling to know that someone is taking advantage of you in that way. And it's not at ALL good to know that people of thinking of you badly because of what you're doing. I am sure that your friend is a good girl, but what she's doing is making her look bad, and bad isn't good.

Once, I flashed myself to some horny guys and the news spread like wildfire through my school. One person even said 'Hey, did you know that Lourdes was showing her b***s? What's she going to do next? F*** until her p**** breaks open!' And that hurt me so bad that I felt I couldn't go on. Those guys who I flashed myself too took advantage of me and often touched me and talked dirty to me.

Tell your friend how society is viewing her for doing those things. It isn't a nice feeling to know that a boy was just using you for sexual reasons, sort of like knowing that a boy was using you for your money. Ask her how her parents will feel if they found out, ashamed, disgusted, dissapointed and embarrassed.

If you have any more questions or you'd like to talk more about this, feel free to e-mail me. I'd be happy to answer all of your questions and concerns.

Lourdes

Answer 4

its hard to say really and telling her parents will make her rebel more trust me.

Answer 5

what she needs is a good whooping

Answer 6

dude u need to tell here rents thats totally unexcetible to be doing at 13! she will def regret it i mean thats so  trashy!!! plus why would she want to have s*x at 13 thats like emotinally tramatzing. seriously talk to her parents.

Answer 7

I know it sounds bad but tell her parents. That is way to young for somebody to do that. She is going to age to fast below the belt and no boy is going to want a girl who really doesnt have walls anymore

Answer 8

Tell her if she wants to be the w***e that everyone talks about and looks down on go ahead.

Answer 9

Haha, regret? That's only half of it. I got pregnant at fifteen, had no idea, and found out when I passed out at school and landed in the hospital with an ectopic pregnancy. I lost my baby, and almost lost my life.

'Course, it could be no big. Some girls do this and nothing happens to them. Some girls, they do this and frankly, it's the worst or last mistake they'll ever make.

My advice... do something about if for her if she's not gonna do it herself. It could go anywhere from treated like a piece of meat, sexual assault from men who think she's asking for it, to be pregnant or have a sexually transmitted disease before she passes through puberty. In fact, the bad things - she won't realize until it happens. It just hits and squishes her life like a bug. Sure, the s*x is nice, the attention makes her feel good, and suddenly she'll be dealing with pregnancy or disease or creepy guys that have some not-so-legal plans that won't leave her alone.

She's thirteen. Now, nothing could happen. And a lot of things could happen. Tell her parents, do everything you can. It's not about sparing feelings, it's about sparing a life and how someone is gonna end up living it. I know I didn't do anything, my friends didn't do anything, and I ended up with something potentially fatal.  

Answer 10

who cares just have fun

just make sure she doesn't get pregnant

that would suck

Answer 11

tell her parents. maybe they can put a leash on her until she smartens up.

Answer 12

Tell her parents. Point blank.  

Answer 13

don't tell her do those things life is short and u should live for the moment but now like that