Ever wanted something so bad, but had to make a decision which means you lose the thing you wanted? ?

Question

How did you deal with it, I know they say you learn from your mistakes, but if id done the opposite, i think i would have broken down!, but funny enough its happened anyway! ive lost somrthing i cant replace!, and fell so depressed, scared, tearful and lonely,

Answer 1

Having to make decisions is our biggest down fall at times.  I made snap decision once and it cost me dearly I lost the only girl who loved me and I din't even have to try she came to me when she could have had anyone.  So now when given a choice where I have to choose I take a long time

Answer 2

yeah, here's what i did. I fell for a guy...hard. and my parents and family didn't like him. they gave me an ultimatum him or them. I chose him, i don't speak to my parents or siblings, i had to get a job so i gave up college, and now he and i are on the verge of break up. makes you wonder what could have happened,huh?

Answer 3

Of course, but my decision wasn't the best thing to do.

Answer 4

It sounds to me that you've given up on someone you love for someone you also love but have been with longer.

If not what have you lost or what decision haven't you made and what can't you replace?

It's hard when faced with choices in life, sometimes weighing up positives and negatives to help us make the right choice brings us no closer to the answer because they're equally important. then if the choice is made for us... still gutting!

Always remember:

-We only live THIS life once.

-Follow your heart, but also listen to your head

-Whats meant to be will be

-Sometimes the choices we make, hurt others, some call it selfish, but we can't go around pleasing others all our lives, this life is ours, always remember your responsibilities though and take care and honour all past commitments in every way you can.

Answer 5

Yes.  I should get at best answer for that one