Every time I start to get over him~ he reels me back in?

Question

I have been dating this guy on and off since the end of April. He really has my heart. When I am around him~ I am the most happy I have ever been but he is so wishy washy with me. It seems like he doesn't know how he feels. I just want to forget about him and stop letting him reel me back in... BUT HOW?

Answer 1

Hello!? Its called breaking up FOR GOOD and getting a new boyfriend before he reels you in.

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel, sigh...

Answer 3

Do not have any contact with him, you won't forget him obviously because you love him but try to move on with your life. You need to do other things other than being around him.

Answer 4

If you aren't sure about him, then I think you should try your best to forget about him.  Or ask him straight out if he still likes you. If you decide to try to distance yourself, give yourself some space. Seeing him every day doesn't help, trust me, but it's possible.

Answer 5

if he doesn't see you know, when do you think he will. why be with a person who don't want you, a complete waste of your time. trust me, there's better out there for you and you need to just keep pushing forward, don't let anyone hold you back. the best thing for you could just be waiting just right around the corner and your on his time clock. keep it moving and don't waste your time !!!

Answer 6

The only way to move on is to cut off all contact. Believe me, a wishy washy man only leads to heartache...Especially, as you allow him to take more and more days, months, and years of your life. Why not find a man who is DEFINITE about his feelings for you. You are worth more than what you are currently allowing in your life. Remember _ YOUR choices have consequences and determine how your life will ultimately end up....make the right moves!

Answer 7

Its real trickyyy..you can control love, thats the bugger of it all! !

it helps to not spend too much time with him & maybe find yourself another man...if that dont work then youve got it bad nd no one can change the course of love, and who knows in time he just might feel the same.

(:

Answer 8

start hanging out less and less if u stop all of a sudden he will get really anoying and mad

Answer 9

The best thing to do is find something else to do .. an idle mind will go back to thinking of him because he is fresh in your memory .. as time goes by the feelings will go away ... you need a lot of self-control to do it .. if you give in just a little bit you will end up back in the hole completeky and you will find your self reeled back in.  

Answer 10

Im sorry you dont want to hear this but if a guy likes you it should not be so difficult he should be with you. Play hard to get see what happens!

Answer 11

Alot of woman/men go through the same cycle that you are in.  Where you want him in your life soo bad, then he's gone when you find it that you're finally moving on "his pager" goes off that it's time to go after you again.

I recommend that you:

1. Call him and tell him that you no longer want to date. (If you choose to give reason, be strong)

    After that...

2. Change your phone number

(Do not, I repeat, do not give him the new number/numbers no matter how well his spell is working on you)

3. Hang out with your friends or family more.

(This way you will occupy your mind to not think of him or get week to call him)

4. Start dating

(If you have a replacement for him you are less likely to become week again.  Maybe the dating will fill in the spaces that he left behind)

5. Don't answer the door to him

(OR, if you do be strong and refresh his mind that you are moving on and need to go)

Good luck, be strong no it won't be easy

Answer 12

when he talks to u just remember that he is just fooling around with ur brain. in other words, he is just tricking u or he hasnt made up his mind. either way he is not the right person for u