Everyone answer this...?

Question

why do people who have had a g*y expiernce say they are not g*y? they are because they had that expiernece, i think if you do something with the same s*x you are g*y,

what am i missing or getting wrong??

Answer 1

They would be classified as a person that has homosexual tendencies or curiosities but that doesn't make them g*y permanently.

Answer 2

i was interested and took a biology class, does that make me a biologist?

as a little kid my mum made me try tomatoes. i hated them and only eated them once. does that mean i eat tomatoes?

uh, nope. i don't eat tomatoes and i am not a biologist. so why should a person who has an "experience" with someone of the same s*x once be g*y?

what a person does does not define them. i've never actually had s*x with a woman, but i know i am extremely sexually attracted to women and can't stand men sexually. thoughts and feelings are more important than experiences.

Answer 3

sorry to answer question with question but let me ask you does every experience you have define you as that experience/ or can you still move on and be who you are.Everything you do in life does not make you that thing but it does change you in some ways.

Answer 4

sexual curisity, or experimenting does NOT make a person g*y.

Answer 5

A single experience does not determine who you are generally physically and emotionally attracted to. Sometimes you just want to experiment.

I know plenty of g*y & L*****n people who have tried heterosexual s*x, but decided it wasn't for them. That doesn't make them straight.

Answer 6

No

WRONG

They may have tried something "g*y" out only once but have decided it was not their scene.

Answer 7

It is just as you stated....an experience.

Just because you experience something does not make it set in stone.  You have to try new things to find out what is right for you or not.

Answer 8

That is wrong!

I was married to a female for 21 years.  Trying to bury and deny the fact that I am indeed g*y.  We had a child, so yea we had s*x.  Technically I would be considered Bi.  But I do not intend to go back to having s*x with females, and I have accepted the fact that I am g*y.  So I am g*y!   Being married does not make me straight.  

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Answer 9

I guess they're afraid of the consequences for the label "g*y". They don't want to be in the same group with the g*y people they had in their mind, the stereotypical one. You know, the feminine, rowdy, high-pitch, bitchy, and all-about-s*x all the time thingy.

But then again, most people believe that the term 'g*y' is exclusively used for men who ONLY likes men. Those straight guys don't want to be labeled g*y, as they are not (Literally).

Answer 10

People commonly confuse who you are with what you do.  It's becoming more clear every day that it's common for 14 year olds to have s*x with their buddies, sometimes even passionately, but few of them are g*y, most go on to marry women and have lots of kids and are perfectly straight.  At the same time, some are g*y and have never had s*x with another of their gender, just go through the motions of being straight.  It's all a matter of who you prefer, who you are on the inside, the part others cannot possibly see, not what you do, the only part others do see.

Answer 11

There's more to being g*y than just innocently fooling around with the same s*x out of curiosity. Sexuality isn't black and white, which is why a lot of people can't figure out their orientation just by looking at a guy or a girl.

I had a serious relationship with a guy in the past. Does that make me straight? Not in the least.

Answer 12

g*y s*x is g*y s*x but someone could still be a bisexual. If that is the case then they are not completely g*y.  

Answer 13

Before you had tthe experience you thought you were g*y and you tried to verify whether or not you were g*y by trying out being with another guy and you realized you didn't like it.  So the results of your expirement are not positive so since your experiment wasn't successful you decide there's no way you can be g*y.   So  you go back to liking girls.  I don't want that to happen with me.  If it goes negative on the first guy I try with I'm just gonna try  with another and keep on trying till it goes well.  Cause I wanna be g*y.  I just believe that me and another guy would relate to each other better than me and a girl.  I know what he would probably want from me and I am more than willing to give it to him.  I don't always know what girls want but I have a pretty good idea of what guys want and I'm willing to give it to them.  

Answer 14

I thnk to most people if you have a g*y experience & stay with the same s*x you're g*y, if you have a g*y experience & go back to the opposite s*x, you're not g*y.

I think its based on what you stick with, not what you've tried

Answer 15

I can see where you're coming from, but people go through loads of phases when they are young. You might think at 12 you're g*y, then at 14 think you're straight, then at 16 bisexual so you experiment to sort of discover "who" you are.

If you're a straight girl and you kissed another girl or even did things with another girl it doesn't mean you're a L*****n or even bisexual. It was just an experience/experiment.

If you choose to live your life having relationships with just the same s*x then yes that does make you g*y. But to have fun with other people, sexually, doesn't necessarily make you a g*y person.

Answer 16

Whatever!!  So not true, but whatever!!!  :@)

Answer 17

they could be expirementing

Answer 18

No offense, but thats wrong

just because you had an experience

doesnt mean you LIKED the experience

if you LIKED the experience your g*y

Answer 19

Experimentation, curiosity, intoxication..

Just because you've had a homo experience, doesn't mean you're g*y.  

Answer 20

The only way to have a question answered is to ask it.

Answer 21

Just trying something out doesn't make you anything. You're g*y if you feel that way.

Answer 22

thats not enitrle correct lets be honest if a guy gets blown by another dude it doesnt make him g*y it could just be the fact hes horny and needs to realse sexual tention  now if it was ermm lets not go any further eh

Answer 23

what about g*y people who have had straight experiences?  they still say they're not straight most of the time.  people consider one-time experiences to be unimportant, i guess, and it goes both ways.

Answer 24

1 I am g*y and have been out since my early teens.

#2 For the record, I graduated voted most popular male in my class, as an out g*y male

Those things established -- actions DO NOT equal preference.  I had several straight friends when I was young that liked me to s*ck their d*cks -- and I did -- and they were straight before, during, and after -- for them it was assisted masturbation with a friend they cared about.

I understand that it is easy to want actions to equal preference, but they just don't.  Having one g*y experience, or 5000 g*y experiences no more makes someone g*y than marrying and having children and  10 year marriage makes someone straight.  g*y men come out of the closet all the time after years of marriage and hundreds or thousands of straight experiences.  Believe me, they knew before the first time that they were actually g*y -- and they fought it and pretended.  Being open enough to enjoy your buddy's mouth or whatever has no more meaning than the other.

Kindest thoughts,

Hermes