Everyone how can i stop being shy and just have fun and go out and take chances?

Question

i mean i cant even look people in the face to talk to them, im too bashful.. it kills me everyday because i cant do anything because i think peopl eare watching me... this is really destroying the fun i should be having. Can anyone plz help me, on how to grow out of this shyness?

Answer 1

Therapists.seriously it does help to talk to one cuz they can basically help you out with whatever i9t is that keeps you from talking to people

Answer 2

I have this same problem...I cant overcome it...I cant talk to people im to shy and idk what to do....

Answer 3

the only way to overcome shyness is to feel confident in yourself, To do tht , u should be proud of yourself and not be conscious of anything, If u r happy being you then just live ur life and who cares what others think , its about time to have ur own fun!!

Answer 4

If you realize that everyone is the same as you things will be easier.  Don't worry that people are watching you because believe me everyone is too busy worrying about themselves and what others think of them.

So you are no different than anyone else.  The only other suggestion I have is that you try it once and fake confidence.  You will find out its not as hard as you think.  Force yourself, face your fears and you will be surprised at the results.

Answer 5

I agree with Asha, the only way to overcome shyness is through confidence.You might try team sports, did you ever see a shy jock? Socialize with something your good at. Don't think your good at anything try something you like. Don't like anything try martial arts, not having to take crud will greatly increase your confidence, But mind you don't lose your sense of humor.

Answer 6

1: dress the way that makes you feel that you actually want people to look at you.

2: when you wanna do something and you're thinking that you shouldnt( like talking to new person...) just do it! and reward yourself afterwards.

honestly if you do it it usually turns out good,

and the only person that can change you is YOU.

shyness is not that bad in some points of life though.

good luck and plz answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...