Everyone is ignoring me:/?

Question

I feel really bad. Just bad. I feel:

extremely insecure.

depressed.

agitated.

unimportant.

unloved.

unwanted.

I feel as if the world would be better without me.

I feel as if no one would cry if i died.

I feel as if everyone hates me.

I feel as if my life can't get worse.

I feel like my life is worthless.

I feel helpless, small, and weak.

I just feel horrible. And i don't even know why.

And when i tried telling people about it they just ignored me.

Please don't say go to a therapist. I really hate the idea of telling some stranger about how you feel and such things like that.

I have actually cut myself a few times. And... I don't know.

Please help me?

Answer 1

learn to love yourself first...appreaciate what you have and look for your purpose on living... find things you can enjoy doing and can get your time.... dont waste your time doing nothin...liive, laugh have fun! :D  

Answer 2

Same to me :(..

Gah!.. I wish I don't even know my friend..

Answer 3

first and foremost you love yourself, dont care what world says about you. do and live what makes you happy.

***smile wins hearts***

Answer 4

Well if you are already cutting yourself, then it is serious! you need to tell someone like YOUR PARENTS! the only way to start helping yourself is to tell someone, let someone help you!

Think POSITIVE! It truly helps, I heard one way to gain confidence is to fake it! So fake it, tell yourself how great you are, how strong you are, how beautiful you are. And when you think people are ignoring you, think f*** them, its there loss they do not want to talk to me. Usually when someone is feeling down about themselves they start thinking or really assuming no one cares, which in fact is NOT TRUE. trust me people care! Even when you think no one does, they do.

It is normal to go through stages like this in your life. Just stay strong and get past it, YOU WILL GET PAST IT! So hang in there, join more groups to help if you feel lonely. Talk more to people, like hang out with your friends more. Tell your family you need help, and you would like to get out more to help with your depression, and they might just help you buy lending you money to go out, or taking you to special places to cheer you up.

Just TELL your parents, they are there to help! I know my mom every time i get sad and down about myself. she is the one person, doing whatever she can to make sure i am happy and feel great about myself. It is wonderful to have someone in your life like that. You just have to let them!  

Answer 5

hmm...you don't want to see a therapist..but yet you feel perfectly fine telling millions of strangers on line...Good choice...

Answer 6

Have you done anything that irritates people?

Your case sounds pretty serious..

Even if you don't tell anyone,don't bottle it up too.

I strongly advise you to keep a diary..or at least a notebook.

If people ask you whats bothering you, show them a entry or two.

I used to feel the world would be better without me too..until I got so bottled up I almost gave myself a deep gash that could cut my bone.

If you say you hate the idea of telling some stranger about how you feel and such things like that, then why are you telling us? But it is a good thing, you know? Its because you aren't bottling up your feelings anymore.

Have you ever asked yourself why people ignore you? Or at least you THINK people ignore you? Get some time down and talk to your friends.They should be able to understand you.Just tell them it's very important. If they ask how important, tell them your life.

But I deduce you may be suffering from depression.Is any problem eating you out other than this?

But this is all the advice I can give..I hope it helps!

Answer 7

Ignore Napo. I went through the same thing your going through. I lost all of my friends over a really stupid reason, and the guy that I really wanted is at college now, 3 hours away. I went to my doctor and was diagnosed with depression. My doctor recommended for me to see a therapist. I went to her for about 6 months, but sometimes, people say things that you don't want to hear. And after a while, it seemed like she wasn't helping me all that much.

I remember one time actually calling my cousin and telling her that I wish I was dead, and that I wanted to kill myself. Of course she told my aunt, who told my mom and dad, and they freaked out because they were so shocked, but at the same time, it was kinda good that my aunt ratted me out because after that, my parents started communicating to me on how I feel about myself and my life, and what they could do to make things better for me. Talk to your parents about how your feeling. Maybe a relative. But don't cut. I've been there too. But I only did it once. Maybe you could talk to your doctor and he could prescribe anti-depressants. Things will get better. If you have friends and family, then they can help you. Sometimes you might not like what your parents want you to do, but it could really help you. I believe if you keep on thinking your life sucks, then it's gonna be like that forever(or at least a long time). Be positive. And talk to someone you know you can trust. There has got to be at least one person that you like that likes you too that you could feel comfortable talking to.

Good luck! Hope I helped!

Answer 8

I understand a lot. I had something like this happen to me. Go to your room RIGHT NOW and write down 10 things you love. Then, write down 10 things people love about you. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself your important and beautiful 10 times. Tell yourself how sad others would be if you were gone. Think how you'd feel if you lost some one important.

Next, find paints or markers, (perferably messy) and just let out all your feelings in BRIGHT colors. Scream in a pillow to get it out and sing out loud to your favorite song to get yourself pumped.

Then write everything that makes you sad or your insecure about, cross each one off and replace it with something that makes you feel good no matter what. (Laughing smiles food... ect...)

And plz plz remember! Every single person is a unique and beautiful individal. EVERYONE has someone who'd be CRUSHED if they were to pass even if it feels like your not. DON'T EVER FORGET THAT!!!

Answer 9

um....and so like I told this dude, NO way and he was like REALLY? and I was like, yeah and ........... Oh, sorry did you ask a question or something?  Anyways, so back to my story...

Answer 10

everyone is important

im sure If I knew you I would think your a great person, and a good friend

Answer 11

therapy's actually really good for you if you LET it be good for you.

and let me tell you, more people would cared if you died than you think. your parents, for example, would be lost if they lost a child.

you ever been to church? they talk about life and meaning a lot.

trust me, even if people get tired of downer attitudes in person, they probably just think you're doing this for attention, which i hope you're not. just remember that you were put on this earth for a reason and that i don't even know you but i'm praying that you feel better.