I see everyone ragging on teen moms, saying that they can't be good parents.. but how do you know that adults will be any better?? My mom had me, unplanned, at 23. True, she is an adult, but that does not make her a fit parent. Within the next 4 years, she ended up with two more babies, all three of is with different men. 4 years later, she got married (only lasted 9 weeks) and had twins with this guy, who soon after hearing about the pregnancy abandoned us. Within the next four years, she again had two more kids, again, with two different men.
I just found out my mom is pregnant again with triplets, and I don't know what to do. My mom is a drug addict, and an alcoholic. She is very good about staying clean during the 9 month period, but the she goes right back to her bad ways. I usually end up doing most of the parenting, and going into high school soon, and with some of my siblings going into pre school/grade 1/middle school, I'm, not sure how much i can do for the new babies. I don't know what to do, or how to help my mom. She is not fit to have 7 kids, let alone 10! I don't wanna have to give up my future, paying for her mistakes. (not that im calling my sibs mistakes) but I want all of my sibs to have a good shot at life, and i feel like i am there only shot at giving it to them, but I cannot do that if I am going to school full time... I need to be home to raise the triplets when they come in Feb.
Please give me your advice!! I am so excited to go to high school, but I just dont know what to do about my family!!!
Any advice is appreciated, or even just words of encouragement!!
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