I bought a house with my mother. My sister wanted her part of the "estate" since my mother was putting the down payment on the house. My mother already gave her money for her down payment for her own house. My sister got $12, 500 but was angry because my mother and I talked about it and she wasn't included. She went to my mother and got $3,000 more and then called me and told me she was angry with me for not including her on the discussion. Her daughter got $2,500 too. The house my mom and I bought has a downstairs apartment that we fixed up for my daughter to rent at a reduced rate. While the apartment was being renovated my daughter was living with my mother. My daughter is nine months pregnant. The apartment renovations took 2 weeks longer than expected and in the meantime my mother got sick with cancer. During this whole time, my sister did not help AT ALL in the moving or unpacking. My mother went to a friend's house and apparently told her that she hated living with my daughter. Her friend came over and blasted my daughter about how lazy she was and she had to move out that night. Her apartment was going to be done in 3 days. My sister hopped on the bandwagon and told me what a lazy spoiled kid I have. Now she and my mother's friend are going over to my mother's and my house to "work" on it for my mother-finish unpacking and set my mother's room up. I haven't moved in yet- the upstairs is mine. I feel like now that my mother is ill, I have no say in anything at the house. My sister has made it clear that my daughter should be paying a certain amount and that everything should happen the way she wants it to happen. I want the best for my mother but I can't live under those critical watchful eyes. Help!! oh, when my mother went into the hospital, my sister took almost $3,000 from my mother's account to buy her daughter a car.
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