Everyone keeps saying go see a doctor, but how do you know when you should?

Question

It seems like too many answers in this section say, go see a doctor. Do people even read the questions?? Obviously seeing a doctor is an obvious option, but most people are looking for tips to avoid seeing their doctor, for one reason or another. I think that if people can't take the time to offer a sincere answer, then they shouldn't answer. Most people know that the people on Yahoo, aren't professionals, and not to take every answer as the end all, be all. I don't want to waste a doctor's, or therapist's, or whomever's time, so can anyone tell me when you think it's time to go to a doctor?? I don't think seeing a doctor because I am lonely, or because I can't talk to people, is a good enough reason.

Answer 1

If you're from the NY area, you can easily find a recommended doctor at www.doctipster.com

Answer 2

doctors are there for more reasons than to hand out medication at any opportunity. they give advice too and can refer you to specialists to make sure you get the help you need.

when people ask questions on here theyre not necessarily trying to avoid seeing a doctor their wondering whether it is worth it or if what is happening can be easier cured by themselves.

medication doesnt always work with people with mental health diseases because sometimes it is not something you are born with and where the chemicals in your brain are inbalanced but something that your mind [the part of your body scientists know so little about] has created over time.

you don't have to be on the brink of commiting suicide to feel that thats a good enough reason to see a doctor.

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Answer 3

Hi, I have read from top to bottom.  Being lonely is not a reason to go to the doctor, you are right there.  Do you realize that by sending out messages like this one, you are communicating with people, here I am talking to you.  Do you think you need a friend and you have a hard time in this area?  Maybe I can help, write back I will check it often.  

Answer 4

Just because a doctor gives you a prescription doesn't mean you have to fill it. I just started with a new psychiatrist, and told him straight away that I would not tolerate being over-medicated.  I believe that some medicines have their place, but when it comes to psychotropic drugs less is definitely more.  On a positive note, docs can confirm a diagnosis and refer you to a psychologist or clinical social worker who can help you with psychotherapy.  These therapists cannot legally prescribe drugs in most states in the U.S.; all they can offer is therapy.

Answer 5

It is time to go to a doctor when you have tried doing things on your own and are still having a problem that gets in the way of your daily living.  If you can't talk to people, ask yourself, "What is getting in the way of you being able to do so?  Once you figure out what is making it difficult for you, you can begin to take steps to change you thinking or behavior.  If you are lonely, reach out to people.  Make connections.

If you have tried everything you can think of and you are still having problems, it might help to see a therapist.  A doctor is helpful if you are experiencing major emotional termoil that does not go away.  At this point medication can be tried.  I hope this helps.  Best Wishes.

Answer 6

very very true. i completely agree with you, i have avoided asking questions for that fact. i already know what people will say!! and if i wanted that answer i don't have to waste my time posting. i already know the doctor is the option!

mental health wise. idk i think about that too, because i don't know whats wrong, but being in nursing school, i would say...once it gets detrimental to your well being. or over rides you living your life. you know coming in the way of you being you. and your functinal well neing.

Answer 7

It seems to me that most ppl don't ask that question unless they are already seriously wondering if they should.  Given the stigma and all, sometimes they need to hear from others that it's okay.  I personally don't think pills are the answer most of the time, but I do think most ppl would benefit from therapy with an experienced therapist who is a good fit.  Everyone has things within themselves that they'd like to improve, so you don't have to be "mentally ill" for it to be a good experience.  The trick is finding the right therapist.  That's the place to figure out if meds are necessary.  

Anyway, yes, too many do give a canned response without much thought.  Go take antidepressants is the answer given way too much in my opinion.  Still, saying to see someone is better than invalidating your feelings.  You feel what you feel, and if it's not good and effecting functioning, then taking positive steps about it is the best supporting answer you can give.

Answer 8

I agree.

Saying you need to see a doctor is lawsuit protection or idiot protection...however you see it.

As for your solution that you seek...maybe you don't need a doctor but it is unlikely you can fix yourself without others. If you are lonely and dislike talking to others...might I suggest making it your homework assignment.

Everyday, make yourself have a short meaningful conversation. Not about the weather...but about some thoughtful and kind. Seek to help another, share with another. Don't ask for help, give help.

The more you give, the more you will get back. And don't let rejection be an excuse. Be a salesman...practice selling yourself. The more you do it. The happier you will be...

Also: read this book...(not a book that pushes pills...you might even like it)...

The Little Red Book of Selling- Jeffrey Gitomer.

Yeah,...you think it is about selling stuff. But in fact, it holds the secret to life.

Be the book...and find happiness.