Everything Keeps Getting To Me?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years.

I really love him and i would do anything for him no matter what!

But the littlest things get to me and i go in a mood for no reason and once i go in too them moods we start aruguing! I really don't know what to do. I've tried my hardest not go in these moods but just some how it happens! I hate it because i feel really bad for going into these stupid moods as it makes the relationship a bit wierd! i really love him and i can see me spending my life with him! and i know he feels the same!

Answer 1

well i know this is hard and frustrating.. most girls are sensitive and they wish that everything was perfect with them.. if you love your boyfriend very much talk to him about how you feel.. cuz he should be helping you get through this.. keep yourself busy with things that take your mind off of things that get you moody and angry..

Answer 2

maybe it's just a phase and it will pass

Answer 3

At least your honest with yourself and realize when you are moody. When you feel it coming on, walk away and take some deep breaths. Most women don't realize what their doing and the guy is just a ****** and doesn't give a c**p. Men are black & white on everything. When need answers and not excuses. Like when a guy asks his girl " What's Wrong " and the responce is " I Don't Know ", what kind of answer is that. When something is wrong with a guy, they know what the h**l's wrong. Give yourself time to practice on controlling your moods. You may have to go to the doctor for medication to help your mental state. Women go through this sort of thing all the time. Their chemistry changes every month and they need to be aware of what their body needs. At least your trying to improve your relationship. As you have read in YA, many of these women just want to dump their man for someone new thinking that will solve the problem !

Answer 4

You may have some buried resentments that you prefer not to think about, and haven't dealt with. So there is freefloating irritation that can be triggered very easily. When you get into a mood, warn your bf and stay away from him. Meanwhile, think of what these resentments could be and how they could be dealt with.