Everything happens for a reason, but how often for other people?

Question

Everything does happen to make something else happen. How often do you intentionality, help others though ?

How often do you realize you can help someone because you went through the same problems as them? At the time it can seem like you are going through a pointless h**l, then later on in life all of it comes together like an art.

Everything may happen for a reason but some of the time I think it happens for far more of others than yourself.

Call it fate, God's way of making us help one another, or whatever.

Its not a deep concept , but how often do you help others because of your personal back ground ? How often are you surprised that someone is going through something that you just went through ?

How big of a helper tool are you ? I am not asking if you are a doctor , or nurse . I mean how often do you go through deep pains in life , in order to later in life get a sense of worth by helping others?

I have it fairly well in life, I have good health for the most part, I have some problems, nothing huge. I occasionally have helped people in the past.

Answer 1

oh everyone goes through this, but the ones that your talking about have bigger promblems , so that they can solve the little ones, Some people are ashamed to admit that they wrong , and that they have no promblems, but honey everyone has or had promblems in one case or another, I think its fate and Gods way sometimes, Because i give you an example, I loved this guy dearly in my past, He ran away from me, not telling me why? He broke it off with me, and Got married,  WELL ONE DAY I SAW HIM AT A GROCERY STORE, 1 YEAR LATER, HE HAD CRONES DESEASE, AND HE WAS FAT BALD AND IN A WHEELCHAIR, AND HE WAS 45 YEARS OLD, WITH A MIND LIKE A 80 YEAR OLD MAN, HE LOOKED SO OLD, AND FRAGILE, HE DIED, SOO I THINK IT WAS FATE THAT HE LEFT ME THAT DAY,  

Answer 2

well i guess one of these "deep pains" in life just come to make us a little stronger than before.  but there are many types of help, another one is just being there for support, and be there to accompany the person through this time.  but one of the biggest support comes from someone who has been through this because they know exactly, how it feeels, they are the ones who can keep them motivated and can help them get pass this mountain in life.  

for me, i just try to help when i could and when i am helping, i help them full heartedly and also support them through prayers