Evil ex boyfriend, feelings? HELP ASAP!?

Question

Well, my ex boyfriend, dumped me after a month we went out, spread rumors about me lalala made my life a living h**l. I HATED HIM. URG HE WAS AWFUL!!!!!

That was ... mid Feb. when he dumped me.

So.

I think he still likes me, and so do a few other people.

But I have a secret.

......I still like him.

I know I shouldn't.

He's mean and perverted and has a huge head [literally] and he's not even that hot.

But he's funny. And has braces. :3

But idk what to do!

URG HELP ME

Answer 1

I think you should talk with him about y he did the stuff he did and try to be friends. then see how it goes from there

Answer 2

Move on. You are much more mature than him. And girls mature faster then boys.

Answer 3

if he did that to you before, he will most probably do it again. I'm sorry but i think you just just leave him alone, he shouldn't be treating you like that... if you find someone else and start liking them you'll find your feelings for him will disappear!

good luck.  

Answer 4

If he's mean you should stay away from him, he definitely doesn't sound like a nice person.  You deserve better.

Answer 5

Weird, sounds like what happened to me. My ex and I went out for 4 months, ended in Feb and got back together again despite the fact that most of my friends advised me not to. I regretted getting back together with him again after that and broke up with him about two weeks later.

See, if he's that horrible I don't think it's worth it to go out with him and go through all that AGAIN. But, it's really up to you since you know him better than anyone else on here. Are you sure everything with the rumors and stuff wont happen again?

Answer 6

Maybe he's doing the age-old trick of throwing spitballs at you even though he likes you.  He sounds immature!  I had a boyfriend exactly like him in high school, though.  Looking back?  I regret it :)

Answer 7

don't go for him again if he is spreading rumors about you he is not a true boyfriend  

Answer 8

don't go there again, if he spread rumors about you there's a good chance he would do it again.

Answer 9

follow ur heart

Answer 10

ok if it was meant to be then it will happen but u have to make it happen so try it again then if it doesnt go over well then it just means it wasnt meant to be!!!

good luck!

Answer 11

don't take him back move on.. you can't truly get over your ex until you find someone new..

if you do really really like him make him work for you so hard.. don't mke it easy by any means show him that he should treat you with alot f respect.. (unless he ever actually treated you very disrespectfully then i would run fast the other way no matter how you feel!!)

best of luck!

Answer 12

Hey girl..you sound confused..very confused.

One part of you hates your ex,but the other part of you holds on.

Study your feelings and give yourself a little time to know what you

really want...then ask again.

Giving you advice at this point in time to tell you to stop

seeing him might contradict your heart or willpower which

yearns to be with him.

But if you really want to get rid of him,just do it.

NO more explanation. If he messes your life, ignore him.

The best way to get even is to ignore the actions of

your ex for if he senses that he could not get reaction

from you,that would give him the idea that he is just

wasting his time...in time he will be gone without you

noticing it....not unless you do not like him gone.

Again girl, make up your mind.

Answer 13

Well, If he is what you said, then tell him how you feel. Ask him why he started rumors about you. Then if that doesn't work & you think he still likes you, then make up a rumor that you are going out with an older boy. Hope it works! Bye!

Answer 14

You are in pretty much the same situation as me.

I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. He is pretty hot, but my friends don't think so. (They don't have any taste.)

My ex had big buck teeth but now has braces to hide them.

Maybe try to flirt with him and get eye contact with him and smile a sweet but subtle smile. Keep his gaze for 3 seconds and then casually look away. Play with your hair around him too.

Good luck and I hope I helped!