Ex's wife wants to be friends on myspace.?

Question

I was checking my page the other day and I had a friends request from a woman I did not know. So I clicked on her picture and Looked at her page and it belongs to my ex boyfriends wife. I still have hard feeling towards the ex so I just denied the request. A week later she sent another request. I am happily married and once my husband found out he was furious. Now he goes on myspace and checks everything. Questions are why would she contact me and why is my husband so mad about it?

Answer 1

weird

She probably just wants to be nosy.

Answer 2

ask them both. maybe the woman needs specific info. you can always deny her access later.  ask the husband why he is angry and why he feels it necessary to check your friends.. or offer to introduce him to everyone you talk to, to open your circle of friends and have him do the same.

Answer 3

Your husband is insecure.  You were right to be honest with him.  You should remind him of that.   You love him enough to be honest with everything.  You are not trying to hide anything from him.  Maybe she is trying to get you to be friends there so she can ask you some questions about your ex.  I agree with what you did.  Now, you can block her completely and she will not be able to send you anymore request.  Not just deny, but block.

Answer 4

Your husband might feel the ex bf is posing as his wife! DO NOT except her if you love your husband. You dont know the motives behind all this. She could write you too from MYSPACE. Do not make contact and keep deny her. But she hasn't so be careful. Reassure your husband about your decision and tell him this is your SPACE. And he can trust you. Then keep it your SPACE. He has no right to be checking, he can visit it through his own SPACE. But thats it.

Answer 5

Don't - it's seem like she want be nosey in your life, curious about you, ur husband. Just ingore her, tell your husband not be mad at you because it's her fault to add you, or maybe your husband want you ingore her which you didn't?  

Answer 6

the simplest thing to do was just to block her or tell her to stop harrassing you. or maybe she wants to know why you quit things off with her now husband so she can watch out for some things.

Answer 7

first of all don't get tangled up with this ex's wife, second of all your husband may think you are communicating with your ex

Answer 8

Maybe the wife just wants to try to be your friend, it is a bit confusing.  Do you have children with the ex?  Your husband is probably just jealous of the whole idea of an ex's wife.  Best of luck!!

Answer 9

For one, I do not think your husband should check your MySpace.  It's your MySpace not his and despite the fact you two are married, you two both deserve your own online privacy (email, social networking sites, etc).

If he is checking it, I suspect he might be jealous and feel her contacting you means that you are talking to your ex again.  However, if your ex is someone you perhaps used to talk about a lot, he may be afraid the her friend's request is going to re-open an old basket of worms.

The ex's wife might be contacting you because your ex might be giving her the impression you are still an important part of his life, and she wants to be involved.  Or, she might be jealous of the relationship you two used to have.  Thus she wants access to your MySpace out of insecurity.  It might be innocent, however if she has attempted to friend you again after you denied it, she obviously not getting the not-so-subtle hint you do not want her friendship.

Answer 10

why dont you block user? then she cant keep requesting you. tell your hubby you cant control what she does! and you are doing your part by denying the request, so its not your fault. shes making the request not you.