Ex-Girlfriend keeps having erotic dreams about us (But she is married) ?

Question

Ex-Girlfriend keeps having erotic dreams about us. As well as us getting back together and tells me about it. But she is Married. What should I do and what should i tell her

Answer 1

Tell her that she is married and her fantasies need to be kept to herself.  Explain that you don't want to hear it and cut off the conversation if she tries to discuss it again.  For whatever reason, you guys are not together any more.  She needs to focus on her marriage and you don't need to be a party to any potential cheating or other issues.  The best thing for you to do would be to cease all contact with her.

Answer 2

Why are you still that close to your ex?  Change your phone number and never talk to her again.

Answer 3

    First of all how did you get this information, and what do you want to do about this situation?  It is possible that you are searching for justification,however  erotic dreams about anyone seems to be normal whether or not you are in a satisfying relationship or not.

Answer 4

Of course she's having dreams about you, she's married.  If she were still single she wouldn't give you a second thought. Married people are sexually deprived freaks.  Tell her that.

Answer 5

WHY is she telling you this?? that's what you really need to think about..

she's too late... she's married...

Answer 6

tell her a sorry you were the one that made the choice to get married

if you loved me so much and the s*x was so erotic why did she not stay with you ? were you not interested in getting married?  Tell her it is all about choices and you made yours SORRY.

STOP TALKING TO HER!!!!! ASAP

Answer 7

Tell her to get herself a vibrator and move on with her life. She's married, she lost her chance to be with you and if she had wanted to, then she should have never taken that step with another person. Don't be someone who helps break up a marriage, stay out of it and move on with your own life. You don't need that kind of drama and if she really wanted to be with you, she'd file for divorce, plain and simple.

Answer 8

Well dreams don't usually mean exactly what they seem to so I wouldnt take them seriously. However she shouldnt be telling you about the dreams!

Answer 9

Dude, Get away...Stay away, dont get in the middle of her and her husband, bad for everyone.

Answer 10

Unless you're looking for trouble, stay away from her!

Answer 11

she is married and she shouldnt be telling you about her dreams even if they are true.

if her husband new what she was telling you then she wouldnt have a husband anymore.

stay out of it there is to much drama

Answer 12

I am sure its flattering, but I would tell her to keep them to herself. By calling you and telling you, she just wants to boost her ego with your approval. I cant imagine why else she would call and tell you unless she wants you to think shes willing to cheat with you and get your reaction. She's a married woman now, she shouldnt be calling you about much, let alone about erotic dreams.

Answer 13

even if she wanted you back why would you have her she is  already proving she cant be trusted by still having any kind of a relationship with you she is  no more having s*x dreams about you then i am she is trying to keep you  on the side  with the promise of s*x

Answer 14

Well.. i'm not sure about what it is that's bothering you. The fact that she dreams.. or the fact that it's about you. They are her dreams, how is that effecting you? That's her head, her thoughts and her desires...Now if  your asking if you should act on them or have the same dreams about her.. then do so..I'm just confused about your question.

Answer 15

you stop with her dr and dnt take her call

tell her that she is a married one and tell her to dreams of her husband and not you  

Answer 16

nothing! leave it alone.

Answer 17

stay away from her or she will make you an excuse to leave her marriage.  she may not be totally happy with her current or they may just be having problems and you're being used as a scapegoat.

Answer 18

Tell her that she's married and you don't want to hear about it.  If she must share her dreams - go share them with her spouse...

Answer 19

If its meant for the two of you to reconnect it will happen in its own time. Don't let yourself be the reason her current marriage doesn't work out just listen to what she has to say and move on.

Answer 20

you should do nothing! and you should tell her that it is not appropriate to tell you theses things because she is married.