Ex and sister problem?

Question

im on my cousins account so dont go thinking im 15 if you look at her page.

my sister is 8 months pregnant and i split up with my ex who i had been going out with for about 2 years maybe over, about 5 months ago we split and he phoned last week and said that he will be the dad to my niece as my sister didnt have a bf or hubby. that means that he must of had s*x wit her while we were still going out.

i dont have any question in particular but just any info or advice or anything would help. thanks.

Answer 1

When I read that he said he will be the baby's dad, I got the impression that he intends to marry your sister, which would make him the baby's dad, not that he is the baby's biological father.  If you want to be sure, you should ask him and/or your sister for clarification.  As an example, I am my wife's daughter's "dad" even though the daughter was born before I met her; I met my wife when her daughter was about 2 weeks old and later married her.  Technically, I was the step-father, but she always called me dad, even to this day, over 23 years later.

Answer 2

Paternity test needed there.

Answer 3

Ask your sister directly what he is one about and if they have been deceiving you then cut ties with both of them

Answer 4

like you need to ask your sister wassup with him saying that. you also need to ask him thats if you want to know.  

Answer 5

What do you mean he said, He will be the dad...  is he offering to help or is he saying I am the father of your sister's baby?  If he is the father...  wow...  sure be mad at him, but I'd hate my sister.  There's no worse betrayal than by a sister.  And yeah, they would have had to sleep together before you broke up...  and how long was it going on that they both lied to you?  WOW.  I am really glad not to be you right now.  

Answer 6

hi,i feel very sorry for you.firstly i would have a talk with your sister,before i slapped her.then i would disown both of them and find someone desent.good luck to you.x

Answer 7

wow, you need not speak to that jerk if he did have s*x with your sister. dont ask any questions, because im sure the details will only hurt you even more than im sure you're hurt right now. if you find out that it really is his child, do not ever speak to him again, or let him have any contact with you. why? because he doesn't deserve it. 2 years? it will hurt, but time heals all wounds. as for your sister- shes so wrong. i personally don't see how she can even look you in the eye. though shes blood, i think you should stay away from her for awhile too.  if she can do THAT to you, what else can she do? hmmph.  please don't be nice to either one of them about this situation, because they certainly weren't nice to you.

Answer 8

Darling that is an awful situation..i can only eemphasise with you..the best thing you can do is..let them know you forgive them both -be happy for them..obviously not too happy but no point in putting yourself through anymore pain and anger and carrying around angry with you for god knows how long...after all your sis still family-and not baby's fault bringing brought into this situation but thank your lucky stars you haven't wasted anymore time on your ex..there's better things waiting for you than being landed with a baby.x