Ex bff passed away and I keep seeing her in my dreams, what does it mean?

Question

I am having dreams about this girl that passed away almots 10 years ago. She was my very best friend from 10 to 16 until she made up with my boyfriend, and I stop talking with both. I truly loved her as a sister, deeply, but I completely lost contact after the cheat. I am in touch with her mom once a year, but it seems that I see this girl in my dreams more often. A lot of times she is alive and we are bff again. I am happy to see her and have a best friend. What does all that mean? What does she want to tell me? What should I do?

Answer 1

I don‘t think it means anything.

Just ignore it, and after a while, the dreams will go.

Answer 2

this is a theory but I think your mind can't accept the fact that she's gone and you didn't get all you could from her as a best friend before she passed away and a dream is our subconscious mind taking to us in images that are reflected from your conscious mind that is thinking that way in other words to make the dream go away you have to make sure you know what happened so sit down and tell your self the cold hard facts and make sure they stick to your mind and accept the reality as it is.

Answer 3

If you believe that people passed can come back in your dreams (which I do) then maybe she is trying to apologize to you for what happened.

Perhaps at this time in your life you are more open to different possibilities in life, and because of this she is able to come to you in ways that she couldn't before.

Maybe you need a friend right now because life is a little rough and she's still trying to be there for you.

If I was you I would kind of meditate about her before going to sleep. I would vocally tell her that you accept her apology if that is what she's trying to do. And to keep visiting you if she's trying to tell you something else.

Answer 4

dont want to alarm u her spirit is around u .she did sm to u that she didnt even like .it remained in her last moments thinking not when she was alive but when she died .u should light a candle and say a prayr 4 her .she seems to not let go

Answer 5

what should you do? get a life...who dreams about a girl who died 10 years ago..

Answer 6

it means you miss her

you'll get over it

Answer 7

she's coming back to tell you she's sorry for what she did. you'll have to just try and tell her why you stopped talking to her.

Answer 8

let her know in your dream your cherish her friendship and dont hold anything against her and wish her happiness where she is at and to move on..... she may feel she betrayed your friendship and it bothered her..... let her know you forgive her, and tell her she can move on now.

Answer 9

It sounds like you miss her too, and you never came to terms with her death because you had a hard time forgiving her for what she did.  I recommend you try to forgive her for it, and then you can remember her as the best friend she was, and not for her one worst moment.  I think you'll be happier that way.

Answer 10

its nothing dont worry about it, it will go away and when your dead your dead there is no coming back 2 visit

Answer 11

yes she misses u dearly and shes telling u that she's in goods hands with the Lord, telling u not to worry~~

Answer 12

Maybe She's Trynna Tell You Something

Answer 13

Repeated contents of dreams often reveal a wish or maybe a conflict that is unsettled. In your instance, it may be fair to say that a bit of grievance was never fully accepted since a friendship was broken. After you see in your real life (awake) the person is actually your mother and by using her in the dreams the pain is displaced. Similar contents of dreams evade the true issues and we find them scattered about in our memories where we would least expect them to be. Friendships whether injured or not become as character of understanding in which only the owner can decipher, some people use a dream calender or a diary and study the results after a month, and most likely these will sustain when this becomes an inquiry, "kind of keeping an eye on yourself."