Ex boyfriend help?! please im soo sad :(?

Question

well i was going out with this guy

for a year

he was like my bestfriend

and he broke my heart

he told me

that we couldnt be together anymore

because we didnt have the same chemistry that we had before

=[

turns out that i figured out the real reason why he broke up with me

it was because he fell inlove with his ex girlfriend

im so mad and upset

:(

before we broke up

we werent really talking because i had to visit some family far away from he lives

for like a week

and more things came up

so we werent talking for like 2 weeks =/

when i came back he just tells me that he wanted to break up

the weird thing is that

when we were going out

(this started happening a month from now)

i started not to like him anymore, like i didnt feel that same way anymore

but i was scared to tell him

because i didnt want to break his heart

than he broke up with me

and now

i feel so hurt

and i dont know why i feel this way

can someone give me some advice

or cheer me up?!

please :(

im so sad

:((

when we were going out

Answer 1

Actually as he himself take all the blame of this separation, it would be a great loss of your self respect going and bowing before him. You should value your grace more than flirt. Flirt, because he was not sincere with you all the time, while you were, otherwise he would have asked the same sentence with couple of changes to her ex-girlfriend.

Cheer up and don't waste your time for cheap people. See, you cared for him not to say to him anything which might hurt him and he responded with out caring you might also hurt. That's the difference. You will get more respectful person than him.

Once again think, and you will for sure find out he was and is quite cheap.

Thanks.

Answer 2

i know what ur going through. i was with my guy for 2 years and then i broke his heart. after a few months i started missing him, then i wanted him, and now i need him. if he's giving u signals strike up conversations. mine is blowing me off and him and his friends keep ganging up on me(those aren't good signs) and if hes acting like this try and do what i'm doing...forget him. hes pushing me away. i never pictured this but its happening. and forgeting him might be hard but in the end its so much better than feeling heartache