My x broke up wit me a month before going to basic (June, went to basic n July). Since i'm in a navy scholarship, and he's in an Army Rotc scholarship, he fears our relationship isn't going to work out because of distance. He is coming back home after AIT to finish college, but he's a psych major, and i'm a nursing major, and our time will be completely separated. We still remain very good friends, he calls me and we hang out. He even called me when he arrived to Basic.
I want to know (because i've heard many things about Ft. Sam) if he may possibly find someone there...perhaps another soldier, or maybe mess around when he has weekends off? He's a shy guy, and doesn't party much...err, not at all. When he was home, he would just hang at his friends house, play video games, or drink there. Do you think, months at basic training may deprived him of some..."pleasures?"
Please, i dont need comments on "move on, you're not with him" or "get over him." I've thought about it, and i still can't. I just need answers right now. If there was a chance for "US" again when he comes back, i'd like to know what things maybe going around at AIT and possibly talk to him about it before starting over again with this relationship.
I hear AIT is just like college, minus the drills, waking up so freaking early, but it's similar nonetheless. More liberty than basic. How often to do i expect phone calls when he's at AIT? I hear that after class, the rest of the day you're off, and weekends you're off.
I'd like to be here for support as well, but if something fishy may be going on, i dont think my heart can take it. I'm a nursing student, and if he needs help, i'd like to help him.
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