Ex boyfriends current girlfriend is pissing me off!?

Question

MY EX BOYFRIEND JON..IS DATING THIS GIRL CASSONDRA..CASSONDRA IS A 8TH GRADER AND SHE KEEPS CUSSING ME OUT AND CALLING ME TO FIGHT..I WANT TO SO BAD BUT THAT MAKES ME IMMATURE..SHES CUSSING ME OUT LIKE SHES MAH BOSS..HOW SHOULD I TELL HER TO s***w HERSELF WITHOUT BEING IMMATURE..ADVICE PLEASE!

Answer 1

Sounds like she is insecure or she wouldn't be cussing you out.  What happened between you and Jon when you dated, is between both of you.  If he is saying things to her and she is taking it and flying off the handle, I would talk to Jon and ask him not to say things to her as you do not appreciate her cussing you out for no reason.

With her, I would flat out tell her, Listen, I don't know what your REAL problem is, but it is not professional to cuss others out just because you appear insecure about your relationship.  She may be doing it also because he may be saying nice things about you and she may be jealous.  I would reassure her that he is your ex, and you have no intentions of wanting him back.  

If that doesn't work, take it to the Dean of Students in your school.  They can help you handle it with some ideas.

Answer 2

ahhh to be young again.

tell her your over her boy and to leave you alone

Answer 3

just ignore her she is trying 2 get 2 u because maybe she thinks that ur ex still likes u so ignore her dnt fight her if she comes up 2 and starts on u then turn the other cheek and say 'am not fighting its immature and so are u' then walk off (hopefully ur firends will follow u) and tell ur ex 2 control him new girlfriend that shud make her feel stupid things that that annoy people so she will back off but still feel upset which is good. good luck

Answer 4

Just keep ignoring her she will give up when she dosen't get the reaction out of you.

Answer 5

Just get Jon back....that will really p**s her off....then dump him for HER dad.

Answer 6

just say:

i have nothing to say to you, and more importantly, i don't care about your relationship with jon, so leave me alone.

Answer 7

Ignoring her is the best thing to do. Why waste your time or breath with her,sounds to me like she is jealous of what you an your ex had.