Ex from 6 years ago says he loves me?

Question

he left for the army, we didnt break up on bad terms. I now have a baby with someone else now, and the relationship is not good at all. We argue all the time. This is tough for me because my ex is the person i really love. Every important moment in my life, i have always thought it should have been my ex by my side-including the birth of my daughter. He said when he found out i had already had a baby and all it broke his heart. What should i do? Break up an unhappy relationship or stay with my boyfriend for the sake of my daughter?

Answer 1

hi. was the relationship good until your ex came back into the pic? you should never go back. you have a new family.  "what if" always gets you in trouble. time as well as people change. you should forget the ex for now. then try to work it out with the new guy. sometimes we get so comfortable with each other after the first year or two and then a baby enters the picture that we strick out at the closest thing to us i bet you all have good times still just tired and want thing to go back to the way they where. it is not going to happen.  you will only make things worst. remember never go to sleep mad at your partner. and in every relationship problems will arise. the new one may be worst than the one you are leaving. stay and work at it. hard work pays.but do not be a fool.

Answer 2

Tough question.....How does your BF feel about your relationship?  Is he willing to be the man you need him to be to live a happy life together?  How about your ex, do you think he can handle the baby?  Remember he is not and can not be that baby's daddy,  she has a daddy and that is the man your with now and always will be.  I feel bad for you.....Good Luck

Answer 3

the only thing that i can tell you is to follow your heart or you'll end up in trailer park in the middle of a bad country song. It's not good for children to be in household with two people that are fighting all the time. Even if your not going to go back to your ex your obviously not happy with the man your with or you wouldn't be asking this question.

Answer 4

Wow, that sucks, child out of wedlock.  But I guess that is just the way it is these days.  You need to stay in your current relationship with your boyfriend and work things out, and hopefully tie the knot someday.  After all, you yourself define yourself as your child's mommy - so you must do what's best for her..

Answer 5

go anywhere, just make sure that u stay happy!

Answer 6

Do what is right...what does that mean?  Only you know the answer to that.  It seems like a fairytale he would appear after all these years; maybe your current relationship only needs to improve in communication...who know?  You do.  Whatever you do, don't spend your time thinking about this other guy because if you are already doing this, you are guaranteeing the end of your current relationship.  You will spend time only focusing on the negative things your current partner does...none of the good.  I know this guy who has reappeared is the "bomb" in your eyes but after he found out you were in a relationship, he should have left his comments to himself...slightly disrespectful for him to come at you the way he did.  But, that is just me.