Ex gf said she misses me, or just a game?

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Ex gf said she misses me, or just a game?

i had this gf for 10 months. she went to a summer program and met this guy and decided to break up with me (made a little show crying). i was so blinded that i kept talking to her like if i didnt care what she did and we were "cool" and used to talk a lot, i showed her that i was always there for her. i realized that i was so in love with her and decided to try to move on and act cool so I wont get hurt. I’ve been acting cool like 2 weeks, and she always talk to me every two or three days. yesterday she saw me online and we had a "normal" conversation. she was very cautious remembering some stuff of our past relationship and said that she missed me. i didnt know how to answer to that msg, so i ignored it and talked about something else. i really love this girl, i just dont know if she wants to have me as her safe or she really misses me. i keep acting cool, like nothing happened to me and indifferent. we are gonna see each other on campus in like 10 days. im really confused what should I do?

ps. the guy is gonna be 2 hours away from us in another campus. they talk but he doesn’t give her the attention i used to give her.

Is she playing? Does she really miss me? Or she just want my attention again?

thanks

Answer 1

Does she miss you? Yes. you guys dated for 10 months! You guys fought and had some pretty amazing times.

I bet when she's having hard times with her current, all she can think about is all the good times she had with you. She probably has you in a special place in her heart. I just hope for your sake, it isn't the friendzone! dodododododododo

Don't let your past relationships keep you from starting new ones. Wait for a girl that isn't flaky and appreciates ALL of that love that you can give.

:)

Answer 2

hi

   sometimes love is not what you it is,she miss you in a special way .

give her another chance.

Answer 3

She could miss you, just talking about the past could bring up the good moments and remind her. Then again, sometimes girls say things in a way where it could just come off as her being nice where you were think it as her saying she wants you back. You just have to be cautious...

Answer 4

Honestly, he probably won't give her the time of day anymore, and now she feels stupid. People don't realize what they have lost until it is gone. Remember, there will be a girl that WON'T cheat.

So tread carefully, you know the saying, Once a cheater...

Answer 5

My firm belief that girls sometimes have no idea what they do or do not want. So it seems in this case she got something she thought she waned only to discover it wasn't really what she actually wanted. Hey man, if you care for her, there's no way that you can just ignore her, been there. But your gonna have to either confront her and the subject, or keep playing the cool I don't care but really do game. My suggestion, be real and truthful. Sometimes, very rarely, it wont back fire. :P

Answer 6

sweety, i really think you should move on and find a girl who really cares about you and wont dump you for the first new guy that comes along. trust me, you'll only end up getting hurt again if you take her back.

Answer 7

Maybe.