Ex husband help please,wrongfully awarded soul custody?

Question

what do you do to remedy an ex husband that won't leave you alone, he loves to create and keep nothing but drama going, it's been 12 yrs sence we divorced, and what judge in their right mind would sign soul custody papers when the other parent was'nt served any papers at all to notify them of time or day,please i need some support, theres kids involved. i do have a hubby who would love to woop the sh*t out of the ex, but that also effects me seing the kids, the divorce papers are nothing but papers they have never helped me when he did not show up for visitation, holidays, even mothers day of all days,,, please help

Answer 1

First, it's sole custody, not soul.

You need to hire an attorney right away.  If you can prove that you didn't receive the papers, or he can't prove that you did then you'll have a chance to turn it around.  If a parent doesn't appear for a custody hearing, especially when it's the current custodial parent, the court usually delays the hearing and sets another date.  It's possible that there has been more than one date already.  You'll have a difficult time if it can be proven you received the papers and didn't show, though.  At any rate, you need to hire an attorney... yesterday.

Answer 2

LAWYER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Tiy need to contact the District Attorney in your county.  Tell him that you were never served with papers to appear in court.  (In some states there are ways to get around this if they are unable to serve you, such as putting notice in the newspaper for so many days.  In other states, the parties must both be served in order to obtain custody.)  The District Attorney can tell you how to handle the situation.

By the way, it is called Sole Custody not soul custody.