okay...my ex-husband, whom i divorced in 2004, has known since june 2007 that we were moving to kentucky...he was to call my son's grandma in evansville when he wanted to see his girls...he NEVER called nor showed any interest in them...his mother finally got ahold of me in june and asked if she could see the girls during her vacation time...i let her have them for a week...but i told her that this was her visit and that the girls were not to have contact with their dad (they didnt want to see him until he was off drigs and stuff)...so, she had them for a week...
i had no problem with it and even set up a time for her to have them on her christmas vacation...then i was going to illinois and thought i would see if their dad wanted them for the weekend and asked if he would like to start getting them...his girlfriend said yes and i took them up there on fri and let them stay til wednesday...then i took them up there last fri and he refused to bring them home to me on sunday...we were supposed to meet half way and i waited for 2 hrs and he was a no-show...they wouldnt answer the phone when i called or text messages, or when i had others call...
i called illinois police and was told that my exhusband tried to call me and couldnt get ahold of me...said he didnt know where to meet me, but they did know...then a few hours later, the police call me back and tell me that my ex has apparently been doing some research and since i moved out of state, without his consent, that he has no intention of giving them back to me...
i finally called the police at about 10pm sunday night and let them know that i was on my way there to get my girls...on my way, my mother decided to do the same thing...i met her in mt. vernon with my girls...did not get them home until 3:36am...
anyway, now he has filed some sort of "contempt-Order to show cause" that i should probably get in the mail today...
he has known that we lived here for 14 months and he never asked about the kids nor did he even bring up the fact that i moved...he didnt have a problem with anything til now...
what should i do about this OR can i do?
would any of what he is done be considered harrassment??
this is a man that beat me for 9 yrs, then had me arrested on june 13th 2007 for domestic battery/physical contact...when he knew that i was trying to push him out of my face...none of this seems right...please help...
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