Ex thoughts: Did she want me circumcised?

Question

My ex used to ask me if I ever wish I had it done as a baby, and if I'd do it to my son, and if I think I would miss the skin if I had it done. Was she hinting she wanted me circumcised?

I ended up having it done at age 22, two weeks before we broke up. It is much better, and the girls I've been with since have had a good response to it.

Anyway, why wouldn't my ex just right out and say she wanted me to get circumcised? Would you girls tell your boyfriends that if he was uncut and you wanted him to get it done?

I did say I would probably get my son done as a baby b/c I heard it's cleaner that way and prevents infections. She just replied with, "Yeah, I heard the same thing."

I believe I did mention to her briefly that I "could get it done [now]" and after that I told her I heard it could give her a type of cancer, me being uncut. She replied, "You're not gonna give me cancer." So that confused me what she really wanted.

Answer 1

I don't know if she was hinting at you wanting it done. I'm stunned that you had it done when you were an adult?! Ouch.  Its not cleaner if you get it done as a baby if you know how to take care of boys p***s. I prefer my men to be uncut, but I really don't care.

Its not my body and I would never put someone through mutilation for my personal benefit.

And about the whole uncut will give a girl cancer, not true! Your thinking about the HPV virus, any boy cut or un cut can carry the virus and a lot of women already have the virus with no side effects. It could cause cervical cancer, but if you have regular pap tests they can see the cells change before it hits cancer and remove it.  

Answer 2

Go away troll.

Harriet

Answer 3

I wouldn't ask my boyfriend unless I wanted to marry him. I wouldn't want him to make a lifelong commitment to somthing if we weren't going to stay together!

Answer 4

It was never her choice, and why talk about it unless you know you're having a son together?  

Answer 5

I think you need to stop wanking at the keyboard and hit send once.  How many questions does one need to ask about male genitalia in a day and what girls think of it?!

Even if you are serious, this does not belong in newborn and baby.  Why?  Because it's in relation to YOUR circumcision, not your child's.

Check his profile, people.

Answer 6

Your ex sounds shallow and ignorant regarding circumcision and cancer.

You do too.

Answer 7

you're a troll.

I prefer uncut

Answer 8

She wouldn't come right out and say it because a woman saying something like that might as well say "your p***s is unpleasant, fix it" which women know men don't really don't want to hear!!!

Answer 9

Circumcision is socially accepted sexual mutilation.

Answer 10

She was trying to hint at it without hurting your feelings or pride.