Ex wife acting weird,whats she up to?.?

Question

i don't know what her plans are or what she is thinking.but we divorced over a year ago.she has a bf.well we talked only by e-mail,mainly about the kids.then all of a sudden haven't heard from her.had internet shut off.and is moving,letting the house go.that she told me a while ago.but now i heard and know for a fact that she has rented a house less than a quarter mile away.which really bothers me.cause of the fact that there were plenty of rentals in her town.but why is she not e-mailing me?she has and mostly did it when she is at work.my gut feeling says she is avoiding me for a reason.so give me some info please.

Answer 1

There is no phone to call her?

If she has the children and no communication through email, you should be able to get a hold of her through phone.  If not, I would be concerned for the kid's factor of not having proper communication about them.

I am not sure what she is up to but I would give it a few days and then try to get incontact with her other way and exchange another method than just email/letters.

Possibility she is getting married?

Her boyfriend is giving her the "stop talking/emailing him"?

Possibility she is avoiding you for court/custody/child support reasons?

etc.

Answer 2

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help me please...

Answer 3

yea that is a good question well maybe she moved near you to be noisy or maybe she is planning something how about you ask her why she moved so close to you instead of in the town she was in before

Answer 4

Maybe it's her bf who is not happy about the emailing.  I am divorced also and my ex husband and I are in contact all the time.  He sees our daughter every fortnight for sleepovers and usually takes her to TaeKwonDo lessons every week.  We talk on the phone whenever we need to and talk when he picks her up and our daughter rings him whenever she wants to.  You need to open up communication more with your ex wife for the sake of your kids.  I suggest ringing her at work and arrange to meet  somewhere for a chat about things.  Don't be harsh, just let her know how you are feeling and that you would like to be informed of her plans and organise a mutual way that you can be more in touch with what is going on in the kids lives.  It should be all about the kids and your relationship with them and involvement in their lives.  

Answer 5

I CANT TELL YOU ..IT BREAKS THE WOMAN CODE! LOL

Answer 6

Dear Once Was, I can understand you wanting to know, but what if she is finally cutting all ties..I'm with you, it don't make alot of sense for her to move that close to you when she could have found somewhere closer., I wish I could advise, but he best thing you could do is ....ask her? Whats going on! I must add, even though you and she are divorced, you seem to still have feeling for her...am I correct? Just talk to her and maybe you can find the answers you are looking for. Good luck, I hope you hear what you are wanting to...

Answer 7

hmm... maybe she dun wan to contact u coz her current bf dun like it... or maybe she is trying not to think of u .... Maybe only...

Answer 8

Does it really matter? She's your ex, as long as you have contact with the kids the rest is immaterial. Why are you bothered about her moving nearer to you? Surely this will make things easier for you and the kids. Are you concerned that she wants you back? How would you feel about this? Maybe she is trying to work her way back into your life. She could be not emailing you so you start to miss her! Or maybe she has her own reason for moving back into town and is avoiding you so as not to give the wrong impression. Is she still with her boyfriend? Maybe they split and she wants to be back around familiar things. Who knows what's going on in her head, have you considered just asking her?