Exes stepmom issues?

Question

my ex stepmom got herself involved in our marriage and helped my ex divorce me by talking down about me when her stepdaughter is the one who messed up our marriage when she went and had an affair. So I asked my ex why she is letting the stepmom run her life and she said that she don't want to be on her bad side cause she will make her life and her dads life h**l till the end,but the divorce is over and she still wants to be friends and so I asked her the same she asked me and that was r u over me and she didn't want to respond so she finally did and she said she was over me do you believe she is? when I told her 2 weeks before I wasn't over her cause she kept giving me false hope and she said nothing. do you think she really wants to be friends? her son lives w/me my stepson and he is 20 so he really doesn't need us to be friends he is not a baby. What do you think of this mess? the affair was over 2 months after I found out and we divorced 6 months later and she didn't take anything we were together 18 years.

Answer 1

Stay away from that Psycho!!!

And make sure there is a court order for visitation.

Answer 2

Your ex has to be in her mid-30's.  If she doesn't know her own mind by now, she never will.  Stay away from her.  If she wants more, let her come to you.  

Answer 3

I think that this pattern of poor communication, infidelity and broken relationships will continue to repeat itself from generation to generation.

Answer 4

sorry couldn't keep up with who did what to who

Answer 5

It sounds like she thinks more of the step-mom than you. I think you need to get away from the whole mess and try making something of yourself. You and your wife have to live your own life and leave everyone else out of it. If you can't do that, then live in kaos the rest of your life and don't complain about it. Don't step in a pile of dodo dodo twice.