Experience women please help me.!!!?

Question

I wanna have s*x with my boyfriend, but I've heard that hurts. Is that true? Also, will I bleed?

Scale of 1-10 how bad does it hurt (10 being the worst.)

Answer 1

if your not ready dont do it..it shouldnt hurt too much if you are fully ready..

Answer 2

first time, if done gently and kindly, 5/10

but after a minute if he can hold up (yes most guys at their first time just can'T hold on and it jsut goes fast and boring...) as long as it's ALWAYS soft, it stops hurting fast.

it's mostly scary when you pop your cherry.

Answer 3

True, it will hurt most girls if its there first time.

And yes, you will bleed. But it doesnt last long.

Answer 4

Hurts a little, you might bleed.

The important thing - INSIST he wears a condom! Don't have unprotected s*x!

Answer 5

it hurt me  100, but it doesn't have to to hurt  

Answer 6

Don't listen to what everyone else says.Everyone is different, not the same. My 1st time didn't hurt as bad as people says it does. All you have to do is be relaxed, calm, and don't be tense. Because if you're tense you can easily tighten up, and it will then be hard for him to enter & be painful if he does get through the tenseness. Just be relaxed and think positive for the special moment. And the only reason you'll bleed is if you hymen hasn't broken yet. The hymen is a thin piece of skin that surrounds the opening of the v****a. If it hasn't broken then it will break during s*x and you won't bleed bad, its just going to be a little spodding.

In my opinion, my pain was about 3, yours could be too if you just stay calm and relax.

Answer 7

my first time i didn't bleed, i had already popped my cherry by using tampons. so sometimes the whole bleeding thing doesnt happen. but for pain.... well it did hurt but i dont think it was that intense! make sure hes on top and ur laying down because if ur on top it hurts waaaay worse trust me. but if you truely think ur ready and u love ur boyfriend id say its worth it. it opens up a whole new level on your guys' connection. and plus it really only "hurts" the first few times (4 out of 10) until u break it in lol. like breaking in a new pair of heels, after their perfect.