Explain My Husband's Dream?

Question

My husband dreamed he went looking for me. He knocked on an friend's door and was allowed in after he explained several times that he was my husband. When he saw me, I was on the beach and I was about 10 years old. He said I didn't recognize him and he was really sad. What could this mean?

Answer 1

it means you and him need to talk more cuz he feels that you and him are drifting apart

Answer 2

Could mean that your husband has recently started seeing aspects of your personality that he was not aware of before. Maybe he has learned about some of your past childhood history and he is connecting your past to the person that you are now.

Or it could work the other way around. He has learned something about his past history and is learning something about himself, and feels that you cannot understand where he is coming from.

I have read that the subconscious mind takes about 3 days to get issues lined up in a persons head. It helps to go back about 3 days and see if anything relevant happened in that time period.

Answer 3

He needs to give you more space, and get to know you and your  past(childhood) better.

Or..

I know this might sound weird, but my grandma is into spirtual stuff. And it could possibly mean something was wrong. or that he needs to learn more about you past because it could be important for the future

Answer 4

I think it means he is trying to relate to you, he is "searching" for a way to be closer to you as perhaps he is feeling maybe a bit distant, maybe being a bit out of touch, hence why you appeared younger than him.

It seems he is afraid of being left behind. Have you started something new lately? I think he just needs some reassurance that you love him and maybe involve him in some way or just hang out more because it sounds as though he is having trouble getting some time alone with you.

Answer 5

That's you, on that vacation you need to take!  It will take YEARS of age off you.  Tell him he can come, too!

Maybe he's growing old before his time. ;-D

Answer 6

This is a very symbolic dream and has many details, so you have to try very hard to think about each individual part.

First, your husband was looking for you, which means that he didn't know where you were when he needed you. Maybe this reflects that he feels you don't have time for him, or that your lives are taking too much time away from spending time together.

The fact that you were a small child shows that your husband may feel like he is the one in the relationship who has to make all the decisions, and mayeb he resents this part of the relationship, making him stressed. Alternatively, maybe he sees you as the child because you haven't changed much looks wise since he first knew you, and feels like you always look good and that he is inferior.

The fact that you didn't recognise him and that he was really sad shows that maybe he feels insecure that you are going to leave him, and that you are better than him. Maybe he feels like he doesn't deserve you, or that you take him forgranted.

Try and fit this into your lives and see if you can make sense of it all.

Sweet Dreams,

x

Answer 7

u were lost in his dream means u have some unsolved issues wid him that ur husband is hesitated to ask out...he loves u but have fear to loose u...friends house means that matter is related wid some friend...had to explain several times means he thinks u dont trust him....10 years older means he think u want to keep distance from him n he have the fear to loose u....u dint recognize means...he thinks u dont love him....sea beach means overwhelmed wid emotions................................... all from psychology.........

d dream pt. of view is that ur married relation is going through changes..keep close to ur hubby..n try face together.

Answer 8

A dream where a person is lost (other than the dreamer) represents unresolved issues or feelings about the person that is lost (you). Your husband needs to look at what aspect of you he feels he has lost within himself and perhaps needs to recapture and acknowledge those aspects.

Answer 9

Sometimes a dream is just a dream unless, it's a recurring one.

We sometimes feel sad or happy or even cry in our dreams which seems so real that we wake up with such emotion. This is due to our memory emotional sensor that is some how activated that time, and no matter what we dream of, we would feel that emotion - sometimes, we are so lucid that we create our own emotion.  The dream seems to be some sort of insecurity he has about your relationships  with him, or doubts about himself. If that is the case, talk to him and communicate to each other your deep thoughts for each other. Remember COMMUNICATION is a key to good relationships - just to remind you.