Explain charisma. How do you attain charisma? Do you just have it or not?

Question

Explain charisma. How do you attain charisma? Do you just have it or not?

Answer 1

Charisma is when you're pleasantly self-confident (not cocky) to the extent that you can tell something interesting about yourself, but you can also laugh about yourself (not in a depreciating way though!!!)

You attain it, when you begin to find out / define for yourself who you really are.

Answer 2

When people are drawn to you because your interesting  when they're around you they feel better about themselves.  In a group of peers there is usually one person who is the most well liked by everyone.  That person has charisma. I think it's mainly a relaxed confidence and that you either have or you don't -can't fake it.