Extravagant gift should I accept it?

Question

My boyfriend's brother and his girlfriend plan on going on vacation to new Mexico and invited us to come along. I told my boyfriend that there's no way I can afford it. Which he replied, don't worry about the money, would you want to go? so I said of course I would. So he's not definate on going yet but I know he wants if its possible... we both need passports, time off from work, etc... and I know he's got the money to cover us both but I feel guilty. I think its super sweet and nice that he'd be willing to pay for something like that for me but I don't think I'd ever be able to return the favor. Or if I can it'd be when I'm way older and we're either married already or broken up. Should I tell him no or should I accept the gift?

Answer 1

I would accept the gift. Love is not about how much something costs. Love is about wanting to please and make each other happy and helping each other. Besides, he offered. It's not like you asked or is bumming just trying to get a free trip. If he cares that much and arrangements can be made...I say go for it. You may never get another opportunity.