FELLAS ONLy!!!. Why did my EX talk to me!!!???

Question

My ex-bf is weird. We dated for a few months, almost 2 years ago. It was a really sweet and innocent relationship, no s*x, cuz he knew I wanna save s*x for marriage. He's now 27 & I'm 22. He was the one to end the relationship. But he still contacts me on msn, every now & then. Two months ago he said hi to me on msn. He asked me what was new, then he told me that he bought a condo, ( he was living w/ his parents before). And he said that I should "come visit him once he moves in". I’ve been thinking about him more since he messaged me, so last week I decided just to say a quick hi to him on msn. I said hi on msn, but he NEVER responded. I don't care, I'm NOT asking why he ignored me. Neways, today I went on msn and HE said hi to me. He only asked a few questions, I didn’t respond right away and gave short answers. Then I told him I had to go. Why did he say hi to me this time? My question is? Why is he doing all this & why did he say hi to me this time on msn???

Answer 1

Well, there are a few reasons applicable to this situation, some might be funny:

( 1 ). He needs help from a psychiatrist.

( 2 ). He's a show-off.

( 3 ). He still loves you, smtimes us guys have a tendency to hate something a girl does or smthing, but no matter what, even if we break up with them, we still keep a soft corner for them in our hearts which will never be removed.

Answer 2

He is a crazy man

Answer 3

You don't need a "fella" to answer this. For one thing, all guys are not alike, so we don't have any magical insight into your ex's mind. You know him better than we do. Why don't you just ask him? He's probably just trying to keep in touch in case his other relationship prospects don't work out, but no one knows but him. You're 22 years old, and communication is the key to successful relationships. You're grown up enough to manage this yourself. Practice makes perfect. Why don't you just give him a call or shoot him an email?

Good luck!

Answer 4

Well for staters the guys that answered your question did not really pay attention to what you were talking about. You want a guy/mans point of view as to why we do things like this right?? Well let me just say that most of us will only look at you (women) from the neck down only ok, why you ask?? It is because everything below the neck line does not think nor does it talk back to us. When you are talking to a guy you just met at the lets say mall or introduced by a friend..see where his eyes are most of the time ok. You will understand then what I am talking about Pretty Baby,you are still but a little guppy in this big pond of life. I can tell you so much about how most of us guys think and how we see you ladies. But that is for another time ok, for now lets get back to your question.. he is just trying to get you to let your guard down because he like most men are not use to being rejected by the girl he is trying so hard to (exscuse my language) get laid by!! Yes very harsh and uncalled for but that is how most of us guys think and are Pretty Baby ;) ...well I hope this gives you a better view as to what goes on in a guys one track mind ok?? Good luck and happy hunting :)

Answer 5

it is possible he left the msn on after he left his comp

so when he went back on he saw you said hi and wanted to say hi back so you dont get freaked out like you are right now

Answer 6

He is being weird.

Answer 7

he still likes you, maybe loves you. or maybe he just wants you to be his friend. or you two to be friends again and just start over, some people do make mistakes. and people really do change. give him a second chance i guess.