FREAKING OUT!!! PLZZ HELP easy 10 points?

Question

Ok, i have been dating my gf katie for 2 months and everything is perfect right now i love her soo dam much but im really paranoid about like everything and she went some where with her mom and she said she would text me but she left at quarter to 6 and i haven't gotten a text message since and her phone is off cause i called and it went strait to voice mail and now im FLIPPING out plzz help before i kill myself

Answer 1

Oh my gosh, please do not say you will kill yourself!!!! An unanswered phone should not bring you to the point of suicide!!! First of all, I'm guessing you're young so it'll take sometime for you to realize that a situation like this is not life or death. Secondly, it sounds to me that you may either have a control/possession problem or are extremely insecure or maybe both. You need to talk to someone like a parent or teacher or counselor. Get help for your problem before it turns into something worse and you actually do hurt yourself or some one else like Katie. Now, thirdly Katie probably has her phone turned off because she is with her mom or maybe it's that you do this sort of "flipping out" so much that she can't cope. Either way you are just hurting yourself. She's going to get fed up. Please get help, don't do anything to yourself and learn to deal with your emotions. Maybe get a self-help book, or The Idiot's Guide to a Healthy relationship is a good book that you should look into, check Amazon.com or a Barnes and Noble. Good Luck, feel better and CALM DOWN!!!  

Answer 2

Cool down, maybe her phone is out of the service area. Maybe her cell phone company has a tower down.  

Answer 3

she probably juts forgot, no reason to flip out. People tend to forget sometimes, and girls do that sometimes and so do guys. Perfectly normal.

Answer 4

just be patient she will text/call u

Answer 5

Calm Down, take a chill pill.  Think rationally.  I know you're flipping out, but what if her battery died, or she's talking to someone else.  I know you don't want to believe me,  but when most girls say they'll do something, it might be forever later, but she'll get to what she told you she'd do eventually.  If she's anything like me, she probably just forgot, and she'll remember, apologize, and you two will be happy as two peas in a pod.

Answer 6

probably busy with her mom doing something. she'll call you/text you eventually.

Answer 7

okay wow thats sweet on how much u like her;

but just calm down nd breathe;relax [:

maybe there wachin a movie or maybe her fone died theres a lot of reasons her fone could be off;

so just try nd call her a gain  a lil before yu go to bed;

hope i helped. good luck :)

Answer 8

if everything is going great then trust your own opinion...if you love her you will leave her be...trust her and just keep waiting....you dont want to seem to 'clingy' towards her cause that is a major turn off and you might end up losing her...good luck!

Answer 9

Relax, she's either at a place with no service or her phone ran out of battery, or she left her phone at home...

Take a chill pill! :-)

Answer 10

We like confident guys. You need to get it together or she's going to dump your @ss.

How's that for motivation?

Answer 11

ok bud you are prolly a bit younger, but one thing you MUST learn about girls, sometimes we need girl time, she's with her mom and having bonding time and maybe turned off her phone, or it died for some reason, so calm down its okay, she's not in the wrong. and nothing turns a girl off like a guy who is constantly worried about them. and please don't kill yourself hun, this is not a life or death situation. just calm down she will get back to you  

Answer 12

If you let her know how much you are freaking out, your relationship will be OVER.  Calm down and realize that you are not the only person in her life.  She will call you!  Things happen all the time, and you will have a much more fufilling relationship if you don't sweat the small stuff.  

Answer 13

calm down, I am sure you don't have a reason to be so jealous. Why are you so insecure? Does she love you?

Answer 14

Wow..calmm yourself lol. I'm sure she's fine, her phone probably died.  

Answer 15

wow chill out....

Answer 16

u first need to calm down....

then just try again later.

Answer 17

Dont panic, people allways think the worst in a bad situation. just calm down and start to panic if shes been gone for a logn time without contacting you. You should be able to trust your girlfriend, shouldnt you?  

Answer 18

Hey i'm sure its gonna be alright. There's many reasons why she wouldnt be answering her phone. She couldve forgot to turn it on or didnt realize it was low on battery.

if you know her very much and know that she loves you as much as you do, than i'm sure she isn't wanting to miss an opportunity to talk to her bf. she could be freaking out as much as you are lol

just dont kill yourself :P

Answer 19

Look it will be alright her mom probally made her turn her phone off so they could talk and just spend time together and she has only been gone for two hours she is fine and you need to relax trust me she is ok and she will call you to apologize and if she doesnt dont get mad just ask her about im sure she will tell you about it and have a reason for not texting you.

Answer 20

You need to chill out.  You are going to drive her away acting like that.  She will call you when she's done.

Answer 21

CALM DOWN.

She's probably busy.  Relax.  if she doesn't text you the whole time she's gone, just wait for her to get back or ask her friends if they know anything.  Don't go crazy I'm sure she's fine.  Relax.  

Answer 22

be patient

she is doing fine

she might be testing to see how patient u r without knowing she is

which is a good thing because guys need patience

she is having mother daughter time which is important

it gives her time to talk to her mom bout things that she needs to talk to her about

dont keep txtiing her or else she will get weirded out

just stay calm

Answer 23

dude calm down.she's probably just busy.maybe she's at a place where shes got to turn her phone off.

Answer 24

you shouldnt freak out so much

it will scare her and draw her away

so just trust her  

Answer 25

Just be patient, maybe her phone died or she forget to charge it or she doesn't have service where she is.

Answer 26

omg!! a girl needs time away calm down and she'll call or text when when she can