FRIEND troubles! plz help! ASAP!?

Question

ok so i have a friend who i think is a l***o. (not to b mean) and another friend whom i thought i could trust. so i told that friend i thought my othr friend was l***o and she went and told my l***o friend! so now shes po @ me! and so is the 1 who told! i need to make up a story so that i can say that i didnt send that txt message! plz sum 1 ! i know its wrong to lie about it and i shouldnt but i have to! or we have no chance of being friends! plz! i dont need u to give me a lecture! thx!

Answer 1

i have to agree with people above. you can't lie. if she doesn't forgive you, then she's probably just not the right friend for you. and if you lie, that's just so wrong, you can't do that, especially if u r sorry for what you said. some things can be thought but not said, and that's one of them, and even if she is, who gives a $h**?! seriously, there's nothing wrong with being like that, and if you were really her friend you wouldn't care anyway. sorry to be so harsh, i guess, but that's just what i think, but it may be different or more to the story than what you are telling, and you should just say sorry and hopefully get on with it and get over what her sexuality may or may not be. don't lie, and good luck with u and ur friend :) / :(

Answer 2

Lying make it worse. In fact  the person, who told to the l***o, soon get angry when she hear that made up story. And it is possible that the "l***o friend" might find out., right?? Lie is so bad thing, no matter what.

"Time is the best medicine"

Don't worry u can make up! if she is ur real friend.

apologize to her! I think it was not that bad thing. U just told only one friend, not few.  

...or tell her that u joked.. Sooner is better!!

Answer 3

Unfortunately, lying about it will make it worse.  Since you sent a text message, your friend you sent it to can pull it up.  That is proof that you will be lying and they will really never forgive you then.  The best thing to do is to talk to your friends.  Appologize to the friend you called a "l***o" and tell them that you should have just went to them and asked instead of going behind their backs.  Then tell your other friend that you are sorry for gossiping about your other friend and putting them in the middle.  That is your only chance for salvaging these friendships.  Sorry, but it's true.  Since there is cold, hard evidence of what you did, you don't have the option to lie!

Answer 4

hey

I'm not sure what you mean by this text message :S

i also don't think lying it going to get you anywhere.

so this is what i would say

ask to meet up with the two and just talk about it

say you happy if ur friend is a lezo you were

just unsure what to say to her to you looked for advice

with your other friend. id also say that you are

annoyed with your other friend telling your friend what you

said. if i was you i'd say I'm not sure how i can trust you. Also say how do you know you aren't going to tell other people what you tell her.  Im sure you will all work things out .