All summer, my 15 year old son's best friend (who is almost 17) has hung out at our house. He's spent countless nights, I've fed him pounds of groceries, etc. They have never had my son over for anything. And when this kid comes over, usually I have to deal with transportation - she'll drop him off on her way to work, but she won't go out of her way. She drops him off about a mile from here and make him walk.
This boy called earlier and they want to go to a football game at another area high school with some girls who attend this other school. My son had spent the day mowing lawns to make enough money to take one of these girls to homecoming. When this boy called about going, I said I could not drive - so this boys said his mom would take them. Next thing I know, he's calling back to say his mom will only take them if my son pays her $20 for gas.
I told my son he can't go - that I think it's ridiculous for a parent to ask 2 kids to pay her gas money for something included in parental responsibilities. Of course, he had a fit and said it's no big deal. If he spends his lawn mowing money on this then he wouldn't have enough for homecoming tickets. He replied he will take care of earning the money again.
Does it sound normal or reasonable for this mother to make the boys pay for gas in order for her to drive them to this football game? Have I totally lost my mind for thinking a parent should *not* ask teenagers for gas money??
Thanks in advance!
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