Fairy tale themed wedding questions?

Question

Ok I have a couple questions. I thank you in advance for your advice and opinions.

1. We will have 12 tables at our reception. I want to name the tables instead of numbering them. What creative names can you come up with for the tables that have to do with the fairy tale theme?

2. We are having a friend of mine make our wedding cake. She just told us to give her the flavors and style that we want and she'll do it. She's a very gifted cake decorator. I want a castle themed cake. We will get a castle cake topper and I want a three tiered cake with a 'road' in icing up to the castle on top accented with flowers. Is there any way I can kind of make a digital picture of what I want so I can show her? I've looked at all the websites and pre-made cakes and can't find anything that is close to what I'm thinking.

3. As for bridesmaids, I'm thinking of having them wear separates since they are different sizes and just have them all the same color. Is there a site where I can look at (CHEAP) fairy tale style separates?

Thanks again for your help.