Falling in love in my dreams?

Question

Please someone help me.Almost every night i fall in love with some girl in my dreams.It's no one i know and its normally someone different each night.But she is so beautiful and i feel like she is real.I feel so terrible when i wake because this girl is so perfect and i feel like ive just lost someone i loved and that noone could ever be as perfect as her.It keeps happening and has been happening for about 2 years now and its making me feel so bad.If there is anyone to overcome this please tell me or if you are experencing this i would like to talk to you.Can anyone tell me what these dreams mean?And i already have accepted that im a L*****n.and i do not drink,smoke,and i do not do drugs of any kind.

Answer 1

Feelings of being in love though generally positive can also be symbolic of feeling you are not getting enough love in real life and are longing for acceptance and a sense of belonging.

Answer 2

Now if only you could pull off a lucid dream...

Anyways, you could just use it as a pick-me-upper, I mean I wouldn't mind it if the woman of my dreams appeared in my dreams every night, ya dig?

This one time I had a dream where there was this one... You know what never mind.

Answer 3

Maybe you're a pcychic and you are dreaming about your soul mate!!!  And who knows, maybe she's somewhere out there having dreams about you!!!

Answer 4

The intensity of the dream suggests there are some conflicts in your life related to your relationships.  Even though you say you have accepted you are a L*****n, the dream seems to indicate some problems since you find a love in your dream that can not be found in real life.  I would wonder about your relationships over the past 2 years and would imagine they have left you feeling unsatisfied and lonely.

With the little information you give, I would suggest you are searching for a relationship (everyone's wants a perfect relationship) but you are likely looking in the wrong places.  The dream suggests you need to make a change but you do not give enough information to say what changes are needed.

Answer 5

maybe its your subconscious trying 2 tell you to find a girlfriend.

Answer 6

i think its the longing for love in real life and your mind compensating for it in your dreams, but in doing so, it makes you feel worse, but at least you got your love fix to keep you going.

it could also be that you are missing a previous loved one, a lot.

when i have those dreams i like to think that i am sensing the love of my soulmate whom I shall be with in the future, where our love is so strong it transends space/time and reality.

so i don't ever worry about not finding someone, cos i know I will, my faith for my belief keeps me from getting too upset about it, and it definately makes me have less of those dreams, as soon as the fear comes back that I'm gonna end up lonely, and never 'the one' the dreams come back