Family Problems... Help?

Question

Well... My mom has been in a horrible mood lately. She told me she hates having kids, doesn't like them, their ruining her relationship with my dad, e.t.c.. She told me, "I can't wait until you have kids, you'll hate them." Also lately she's been giving me rude faces and smirks. She also yells and swears at me alot. I have really low self esteem and she's not making it better. I like what my parents give me, but they drive me nuts sometimes. My mom also goes through my phone like she doesn't trust me. When I was a little kid I used to pretend to runaway but I never got far enough. They always wondered why I did that but they should. Ontop of this my sisters physically, mentally, and vocally abuse me. They yell at me, hit me, swear at me, say I'm ugly... Which again, isn't helping my low self esteem issues. I feel like I'm depressed and everyday it either gets better or worse. I mean I get alot of things, I am spoiled, and I do love my family... but they treat me horribly. By the way, I'm the youngest out of four daughters. I also have the most, and the hardest chores. I have muscle problems, too. I don't know if it's something wrong but they always hurt, and I can't keep my arms up for more that ten seconds without feeling pain. When I tell my mom I'm hurt she always snaps at me and says she doesn't care, even when I say I can't breathe when I sleep she couldn't care less. I am very upset.

-Do you know if there's anything I can do about the weakness I feel?

-Do you think my mom hates me?

-Add on anything else.

Answer 1

Any sort of abuse, regardless if it is emotional or physical, is not right. Talk to a school counselor about your problems at home. If you're not comfortable with it, take a more active stance in after school activities so you aren't home all the time. But for your mom to ignore your physical issues isn't right. Tell someone.

Answer 2

Tell your mom:

"  the kids aren't her problem in her marriage.It is her husband's wife that is the problem and her wrong attitude towards life in general."

Next, tell her "no oneheld a gun to your head and made you spread your legs YOU did that KNOWING s*x made babies and you didn't stop with one".

As for your muscles,start tryintg to make sure you get green vegetables and fruit and lots of protein and exercise.

Answer 3

you could call cps or you could psycho on them scream at them to make them understand or else nothing will ever change

Answer 4

i have a problem similar 2 urs ...the only thing i can tell u 2 do is to statr ignoring ur sisters  

Answer 5

First try talking to a trusted relative (grandparent, aunt, or uncle).  If that doesn't work, talk to your school's guidance counselor or social worker.  They will hold your confidence and will give you the tools to make it through this situation.  Also, if necessary they will tactfully facilitate family counseling.  

Answer 6

Call CPS.

Answer 7

I know how you feel. I live in a house with two guys ; my dad, and brother. I am on the only girl. And they seem to always gang up on me. I know how you feel. I love my dad for everything he has done for me, but I hate how he treats me sometimes, and especially my brother. My brother hits me, and always verbally abuses me. But, don't let no one's words bring you down. You can't let anyone lower your self esteem. Usually the people who call other people ugly, are insecure of themselves and have to put other people down. They also have a low-self esteem probably, because thats what people with low-self esteems do. They like to put other people down to feel good about themselves. Don't let them get what they want. Don't show them sadness, fear, or anything else. My dad is constantly yelling at me, and making me feel like I am never good enough. But, I got use to it. You have to stick thru it, and believe in yourself. If the abuse gets worse, than tell someone. Don't wait. There are people who care. Good luck hun.