Family Troubles, Please help?

Question

I am 21. I have moved back in with my parents after college, to try and save up some money. At first everything was great. But now its not. I have a brother who is 17. He always makes up lies to my mom about me. He tries to tell her that I eat all the food in the house when I am here, and all the dirty dishes are mine etc. But I frequently buy groceries for myself, and them! One week when my parents were in mexico it was just me and my brother at home. Well I was at work one night. When I came home I smelled strong liquor. I looked into my liquor "stash" and noticed that half a bottle was missing. Well I didnt say anything about it for a while, but I told him that he owed me some money, or a ride somewhere to pay for what he took, and he agreed. Well a few days ago I decided that my parents needed to know, because he's been acting really out of control lately and it makes me mad. So I told my mom and my brother PUNCHED me in the head! He is twice my size. It left a huuuge knot on my head, and its still there. Well he hasnt got in any trouble what so ever. Also I had to buy a locking gas cap for my car because I noticed my gas was used up faster than usual. I have also noticed money missing from my purse. I dont understand why my parents wont do anything about him. He is out of control, and obviously has no respect for anyone or anything. I dont know what to do. I would move out, but I have NO money. Any advice??

Answer 1

By now I think your parents should notice your huge bump on your head. If they do not report him that may mean that they are also afraid of your brother. If that is the case you can make a police report with your medical report of your injury at the same time you can seek counseling from the Social Services where they would recommend you a temporary shelter for your safety.

Answer 2

I am so sorry you are in this situation.

First you need to try and have a conversation with your parents about their condoning his bad behavior.

Do you have any other relatives you can stay with?

Sounds like you are going to have to work harder and save faster to move out ASAP.

Your brother is very abusive and you should not take that. I would consider calling the police if he has assaulted you. If he does it again call the police.

you don't have to be physically abused like that.

Move out. You may have to sacrifice some things to do so but you must not stay in that situation.

find a roommate to share expenses with

Answer 3

It seems like your brother rules the house. You need to get out. It's not your home anymore. Try to find a roommate and save money so you can move out to your own place.  

Answer 4

file a police report put an ad on community bulletin board looking for room for rent

Answer 5

If you cant move out at least hide everything you own til you can. Its a shame you have to deal with this. Its c**p and your parents should be dealing with it themselves. Hang in there and work toward independence asap

Answer 6

Your brother hit you?  Are you kidding?  Tell your parents that you are filing a police report now & you want them to come with you.