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Okay very long story short. My ex (together 3 years) and I have a beautiful baby boy on the way (a week!). He left me soon after discovering I was pregnant (fight, not because I was pregnant) and did not support me during the pregnancy in any way- in fact he was quite a jerk. Now he wants to come back for the baby's delivery. I have made it clear if he comes back it will be about the baby and not us because there is obviously a lot of hurt and I don't need the stress/distraction right now. Problem- My mother is going crazy mad. She feels (and I can see her point) that he is a deadbeat and should not be welcommed back for "dessert" or the finished product and should not be in the delivery room or around the baby or me. She also feels she has been there to support me and that by allowing him to come I am "slapping her in the face." I agree but feel he is the child's father and someday I would regret not allowing him to partake in the experience. Question- How do I get my mom to understand she needs to not like but support and be cordial (not friends) with my ex for my sake and the babys. I do not want to have to choose sides or deal with their chaos. Do I warn him or her feelings? Note- she is not an easy person to convince. I would also appreciate you keep your foul comments to yourselves about him being a POS, her needing to mind her own etc...
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