Family presentation. How can i tpursue my boyfriend to come and see my family?

Question

My boyfriend and I are getting out since 1 year and a half, and my family wants to know him. Unfortunately my boyfriend tells me that he is not yet ready, i want to have a stable life first and then think about it...how should i tell it to my family??

Answer 1

Tell that jerk boyfriend of yours if he doesn't meet the family this week he can go find himself another girlfriend.

When a guy doesn't have anything to do with his girl's family he is either a total jerk or he is hiding something or he is afraid if he meets your family he will be committing himself to you like in marriage.

Either way you slice it the guy sounds totally creepy to me! I never had even a casual friend not meet my folks before going out with them!

Answer 2

If you were my daughter I would not let you go out with this boy.  My daughter always introduced her father and I to her date on the first date.   Our son had to bring his date by the house and introduce her to us.  It is the parents responsibility toward their children to know who they are going out with.

I can't believe you have been going out with this person for 1 1/2 years and your parents still have not met him.  And he is not yet ready to met them because he wants a stable life first.

What is he talking about?  A stable life first.

You need to get rid of this looser and find someone that will want to meet your parents.

I mean this is ridiculous.   If my child came and told me what you are going to have to tell your parent, there is no way  you would be allowed to see this jerk again.

Excuse my language you are not my child but I am very upset about what this young man said.

If he does not respect you enough to meet your parents, then he does not respect you at all and he has you buffaloed (right where he want you).  

Blessings

Answer 3

You can't pressure him. Tell him how you fell and make him more comfterbale. Organise a gathering at a local park. That way noone owns the place and he'ss feel more comfterable when hes somwhere that he feels able to express himself freely