Family problems with husband and sister

Question

well to start it off I have been married to this man for 2 years now and too be honest sometimes it is a little rocky but I think that all marriages are rocky one point in time...

Well I have a sister that is from Alexandria Louisiana and I live in Baton Rouge well she moved to Baton Rouge too straighten her life out and start going to college she is 19 years old... Well she had this appartment with a room mate and they got into it well she is not living there anymore she is staying with me until she can find somewhere else too go

Well me and my husband here recently has been having some problems (more than usually) and he states that it is because of my sister that he wants me too tell her that she needs too find a place too live She does not work but she does do the laundry cook supper everyother night and she makes sure that the house is clean every day so it isn't like she's there muching on us. Me and my husband both work our butts off all day 5 days a week. What should I do should I kick my sister out I have already tried too talk to my husband he doesn't understand should I pay for her an appartment behind his back too resolve this issue or what????

I would love some ideas so not everyone gets hurt

Answer 1

maybe u should tell her how ur husband feels and then maybe help her find a job so she could pay for an apartment

Answer 2

I think he's over reacting a little. She's your sister and family is important and shes only 19. If she was 35 I would say tell her to get out. I think the best thing to do would be help her get an apartment. But make sure she's going to be able to afford it on her own. If you don't think your husband will agree with you helping her financially then don't tell him. How would he be if it were his brother that needed a place to stay? I would do what I had to do without telling your sister that he wants her out. Try to keep peace in the family.

Maybe let her continue to stay if she gets a job and helps out with the bills....