Family problems???help?

Question

my brother hurts my feelings i always feel like i am a embarrassment how can i feel less of a bothering person plz help me

Answer 1

Ignore him. That's what I do to my brother. We're not on speaking terms anymore, but I suppose it's better than him trying to be superior to me. Yay.

Answer 2

just ignore everything he does.  I am a younger brother, and you have to learn to just ignore him unless he's in a good mood

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Answer 3

umm i feel that way too. i am constantly blamed for a lot of things and i am expected to do stuff that is over my level of thinking or working etc.  think about it this way: at least u are not being abused or neglected and even if u feel like an embarassment to everyone, just remember that jesus loves u no matter what and trust in him and pray about your situation.

Answer 4

Ignore your brother, the only reason he does it is because your reaction amuses him.

And to feel like a less of a bothering person, just think about things before you do it and how people will feel about it.

Answer 5

You could try talking to your brother about how he makes you feel.... if that doesn't work and it is something you need to change about yourself then try to change it if not then ignore him and feel proud of who you are and don't let anyone make you feel any different.  

Answer 6

im sure he's hurting your feelings becuase he has problems himself, if your not a bad person im sure he's the one with the problem

Answer 7

is he older than you, if he is this should be normal

Answer 8

dont let it bother you. hold your head up high.

but if it's REALLY bothering you just tell him straight out how your feeling.

Answer 9

Just ignore him and keep your distance.He knows he's getting to you so he keeps on saying things.You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family.The heck with him .Just do your own thing and act like you don't care.The more you show it bothers you,the more fuel you put in the fire.

Answer 10

don't let your brother turn you into someone you aren't to please him. i am a twelve year old and my older sister does the same thing. just don't worry if your embarrassing him. your his brother. he has to deal with it. he can't change you.  

Answer 11

Talk to him and ur parents about it

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Answer 12

uhhh, wow i guess your the "sensitive type, or "g-a-y"

but no matter.

my brother used to always call me fat, and when i lost weight, he didnt call me that anymore. sooooooooo yeah.

Answer 13

The first thing to think about is  who are you. You must feel in your own heart who you are, and what you are. If you understand that, you are half way there. Don't worry about what anybody thinks of you, as long as you are happy with you, that is all that matters. You have to be happy with who and what you are, before you worry about what anybody thinks of you. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is all there is.

Good Luck

Answer 14

try to sit him down and talk to him. then u might find out why he is like that

Answer 15

Talk to your parents or to a counselor

Answer 16

HI there, Siblings are competitve at times to a certain degree. Your brother could be trying to get some attention from others through you. You can gently talk to him about how you feel when he says this and that. Ask him if he likes to be in your position. If all talk fails - and it happens again, let him know in front of everyone else - to stop trying to get his attention seeking needs by being a pain in the ****.

Answer 17

give him a gift.

Answer 18

Ignore him, seriously, I'm the youngest and I know what it's like, just ignore it, go outside, get away from him.

Answer 19

ur not a bothering person, its ur brother who has the problem, and he is mean..maybe you can try to talk to him adn tell him how you feel and hopefully he will realize of his mistake

Answer 20

fucc him

Answer 21

tell him to leave you alone and to stop hurting your feelings just so he feels better about himself

Answer 22

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Answer 23

I think that you should stand up to him and tell him once and for all that you're tired of him hurting your feelings. If you have to raise your voice or yell to get your point across, then do it. Either way, you have to let him know that you've had enough! If you tell him, it will help you to not feel like an embarrassment anymore. I went through this too, so don't worry, you're not alone.