Family social problem!

Question

My parents have friends that are there age and they have 2 kids that are the exact same age as my 2 younger siblings (2,12) and I am 15 they spend every weekend with them I am always feeling soooo lonely cuz my friends only have time afternoon and we spend the whole day with them and now they are even planning on going on vacation with them I just can't take it anymore I feel stupid and bored being with the kids and even stupider being with the parents I don't want to be home alone all day and don't want to spend the weekends with THEM or vacation god nooooo!!!!!Any suggestions!??Friends always have planned weekends so no....I'm so sad=(

Answer 1

why cna't you play with your sibs/rent's friends kids? have a water balloon fight, bake something, make a craft- you have a great chance to teach them something so they look up to you.

Answer 2

Talk to your parents - just whining isn't going to get your point across, you have to calmly express how you feel and what you need.

Tell them you need some time with friends your own age, and ask if you can bring one of your friends with you when you all go to visit or vacation with this family.  Make plans with your friends in advance, before they make other weekend plans.

Or ask them if you can sign up for an activity or summer camp that interests you instead of being alone with your family.  You're at a good age for getting out and developing yourself.

Answer 3

What about spending time with other family members whilst you parents & siblings go on vacation. Perhaps an aunt or uncle, or your grand parents.

Sit your parents down & clamly explain exactly how you feel. Suggest that you go stay with other family members.

Your parents can only say no, if they do then that's something you will have to except.

Good Luck. X :-)