Father problems....?

Question

What the heck is his problem?

I can't do anything right according to him! I'm always wrong!

Why can't he stop yelling at me?

I'm not doing anything that deserves to be yelled at!

He shouldn't be a father!

I hate him!!

Why is he such a dumb***?

Since it has to be a question does anybody else have father problems like this?

Why does he act like that?

Does anybody know a way to ignore this c**p? Cause I can't?

Answer 1

i havent spoken to my dad for about 4 years even tho i see him like every week. i totally get where you're coming from. the thing u have to remember is that in life there are ppl who suck, and these ppl grow up and have kids. unfortunately for you, you're one of those kids. so join the club babe.  

Answer 2

Try staying out of his way as much as possible and being quiet when you have to be around.  That way you can't be wrong, except that you aren't speaking!  Try not answering back as that seems to make it worse.  Just keep your head down, eventually you'll be able to move out.  Just keep that idea quietly in your head and when you can support yourself - do it.

Answer 3

If it makes you feel better, I too am on of those kids (the above poster mentioned).

Its okay, just deal with it because you cant change it. Make sure you don't become like that.

I attempt to have a conversation with my dad about once a month...when I call my mom and he answers. And at 27 I still can't pull it off, some things never change and its not worth the energy and tears it takes to try.

I found "what did I do" will some times stop the yelling.