I had a question up about discipline for a toddler which gave me a whole new question to ask!
Do you think that putting "fear" into your children to listen to you is making them respect you?
I don't see them as the same and I would never want my children to "fear" me to listen, but I want them to respect me and listen, does this make sense? Is it the same thing? I see fear of a parent far different from respect for a parent.
I don't want my child to be fearful, like I do something bad my parent is going to hurt me, but how do you gain respect without fear? Is it possible? Will I never succeed as a parent if my children don't fear me?
Explain to me what you think about this: Fear or Respect / Fear and respect?
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