Feeling down and out.?

Question

i have been dating my boyfriend for a little while. all of a sudden he doesn't show up or call and it is really bothering me. i have told him on numerous times that he needs to make time for us and he says that he will and he never does. i am tired of waiting around for him to spend time with me and i don't feel that i need to keep asking him to. i love him and i care about him but i have a problem with letting go. how do i do this? please help me.

Answer 1

keep yourself real busy, go visit someone out of town, just do it , everyone goes through this at least once, it is never easy.

Once your not so available, he might show a lot of interest, guys like to pursue you so keep him guessing

Answer 2

i don't want to sound callus but are you sure he's still your boyfriend-and more importantly do you want someone who ignores you and your needs? someone who cares for you even slightly would never have to be asked to spend more time with you,he would do it because being with you is where he wants to be!  you sound so sweet its time stop waiting around for him and find someone who'll love you without asking!smile you'll be ok in no time!

Answer 3

quit contacting him let him see how it feels.  he'll either come back or stay away.  either way you'll be fine-* you got him, you can get another

Answer 4

For me i find when things start going wrong is either put them right fast or put them down fast if you've done the sit down talk thing then either you make him see that your not going to wait for him and that you WILL leave him if it keeps the way it is then you'll have to cut it but explain why and he wont be able to talk you round if he's on of those word men then have a friend stand with you as you do it so they can but in if he isn;t getting is own way  

Answer 5

Usually, relationships start by spending so much time together. After a while we all need some space. Him not calling for days may be a sign that something is wrong. If he has not called for a COUPLE of days is WAY different, he may be wanting some time with his buddies or something. You should try talking to him again to find out what is going on.

Answer 6

tell him ill give you a week and if he doesnt change then break up with him

down and out song by tantric!!!!!!!

Answer 7

tell him pretty boy Jin's gonna beat him up if he don't change,

you need to realyl talk to him go to his place and get answers NOW!

Answer 8

Well maybe he has got other girl or it is boring to him. Let him go and see how will he react.