Feeling extremely depressed and lonely. i think im too clingy.?

Question

My life seems to be going down in a spiral. I feel so depressed. My best friend all of a sudden became a different person and ditched me, in a sense. To begin, he actually had a crush on a girl before and he hurt her emotionally. So they didn't talk to each other for like 3 years. During the 3 years, I became really good friends with him. He practically became my best friend. We played games together and everything. This past summer, he found a girl that he liked, and it motivated him to become more out-going. He started working out, got new hair, clothes, new personality, a whole new attitude. It's terrible. I'm happy that he changed himself so raise his self-esteem, but now he doesn't even notice I'm alive anymore. Whenever he's talking or whatever he never includes me in the conversation or tries to talk to me. I try to talk to him but he totally blows me off and follows his other friends, which are mine too. Now that he's so confident, he became friends with the girl he hurt before. I don't exist anymore. I'm stuck with myself and a few other people. If I knew he was going to be like this, I would've avoided being friends with him. I mean, just a few weeks ago, we were great friends, now, we're not even friends to each other anymore. He's starting to join sports and stuff to be closer to that one girl. I'm pretty fat, so I can't do sports. I'm not the best looking guy or fit guy. Nor am I the most social guy. I have problems with being social and making friends. Ever since I transferred to this new school 5 years ago, I've had trouble being confident in myself and watched reputation become the quiet guy or the loner guy. I'm feel so bad. I don't have enemies or anything, and I'm sure if I get some good tips, I can make new friends. I don't want to be clingy to my friend, but he's my best friend. What can I do? I have no one else. Please help me out. I'm really feeling down right now, and I don't know what else to do. And please don't tell me to tell him how I feel. I already told him he's changed and he told me that he hated his old self and he likes himself now. And since he's like my best friend, I don't have any other friend that I'd rather hang out with. Like I said, I'm not social. I get caught up in the anxiety and say stupid things where people just ignore me. Sigh...any tips on that? Please give me a well thought out response. Thank you.

Answer 1

that happen to me to....

this is what you do.

Step one: Believe in your self . you will  never go anywhere if you don't

Step two: don't change for nobody. if you want lose pounds do it.

Step three: you need a book write down your minf.

Step four: found out who you trulu are then accept it.

Step five: then you can make friends

They is you feel bad about ur self. so you think nobody would like u. the truth is you don't like ur self. you need learn who u truly are b4 u get friends . wait 4 ur friend. he will come along. his not happy don't worry. his just trying hide,from himself. some day it will catch up 2him don't worry hun...

ill be ur friend 17/f/usa my name latoya add me hope1280dream yahoo messenger  

Answer 2

Time for a think tank - for instance what interests you in your life? Have you always wanted to do something but not done anything about it?

Perhaps you have always wanted to paint, or take photographs or win prizes for something which something that you feel you would enjoy. Now is the time to do something about making you a more interesting person and making new friends in a club  or a class that can teach you about the thing that you would like to do. Sharing of an interest can be great and give you new friends and acquaintences who also share the same interest.

When this happens you also become a more interesting person and have a wider range of people to socialise withand who accept you for what you are.

In being such a good friend you tried to make your friend feel as though you were there for him and that was good, but now he has moved on and widened his circle

Sometimes as they say one door closes and another opens but sometimes we have to knock on the door to let others know we need to enter the new phase of our life - so get out there put in some effoert and find something for yourself to enjoy and life is for enjoying - not for sitting back and feeling blue and sorry for ourselves.

Life does not come on a plate handed to us - we have to get out there and embrace it with both hands.  Good luck  

Answer 3

try to find a new friend if a friend is dating and doesnt think your alive get a different friend  like him

Answer 4

awarness is the key to life,

live your life how you want to live...seek the courage to do so.

all ways trust your gut feelings,

learn to clear your mind.

exept youself.

it does not matter what any one thinks of you wat matters is what you think of your self,

learn to love yourself.

no one is ever alone.believe it