Feeling hopeless... help?

Question

im not really depressed, at least i dont think i am. i just feel like life has lost most of its fun and wonder. im not really excited for anything... im 20 years old and a male.

Answer 1

I can see that you are a rather pessimistic person, no offense though. But whether the world is fun, the world is interesting, the world is terrible, the world is boring, it just depends on your thinking. The world is still ever the same... Why can some people be happy and why can some people just sulk? Change your point of view and count your blessings...There are tons of them! Also, find an interest in a hobby. Anything will do! Cookery, dance, golf or anything. Or maybe, try a relationship. Your family/friends/colleagues/lover wouldn't want to see you feeling hopeless guy. Be positive and optimistic and it will do wonders...

Answer 2

just a little help from some one above there, my life will be better and I can do much better things... It's hard to deal with the feeling of being a "left over" when people just have used you for years...

I use to sing and I love my job.. now I'm without one... after 8 years in different places.

I use to have my own business but a friend had ran away with the last money I have...

I'm just about to be thorwn out from my apartment.. my car will be taking away soon.. as I have no money to pay them.. why?? I have no job .. And it seems like I have no hope for being me any more...

It seems as though I don't have any profit for any one any more so they all forget about me...

In here... I'm dying, slowly...  

Answer 3

Life can make you feel that way.

Answer 4

hmmm i think sometimes we feel that way. that we don't have the reason to have fun. but you can pass that. just pray

Answer 5

Once you get a job and have to do the responsible thing it really sucks. I'm having that hopeless bored feeling a lot lately. It'll pass hopefully once I get married and have kids. Until then I'm screwed.

Try joining the gym and get pumped up for exercising. Join a dance class maybe? (That's what I'm going to do so sorry if it's not the guy thing lol)