Feeling left out?

Question

I thought i was over this. But its girls bday party at work and im going with some other people, which is fine. But today i was working with one girl chloe and she was talking to someone else about meeting up for a few drinks before the party..i wasn't asked and pretended i was busy. Then another girl come down to thecounter julie and chloe went straight up to her and asked her to come. Julie said she didn't know and asked me if i was going i said no bcos i was working late anyway an i knew they didn't really want me there and Chloe stood there looking awkard almost hoping i wouldn't say i would go! i really dont get why these girls have a problem with me and why i get left out I have not given them a reason to not like me i really do try my best to get along with them...now im worried about going to the party and being left out there..

What are your thoughts on this and what advice can you give me?

Answer 1

it's  only some girls from your job, i wouldnt worry about it. You have your friends to hang out with and get a drink with. The only reason i can think they wouldnt like you is because they might be jelaous of something.

Answer 2

Do what you want...who cares what they think? Maybe they just thought that if you went, you would be out of the loop. There will always be people who like you and people who don't like you.

Answer 3

If you don't like them, don't go. Just stay at home. only stick with those who completely know you and like you.

Answer 4

Ignore 'em youre probably better off without them