Feeling leftout from family!?

Question

My mum has been going out with a guy for a few months now and i feel really left out, i tell mum this but she doesnt listen. And they always kiss its gross! I hardly have any time just with mum now cuz hes always there!!!! Help!!

Answer 1

well. she is probably really happy w/ her new bf. just give her sum time.its ok. good luck!

Answer 2

its hard to respond to that as you dont state what age you are, however

i think the next night Mr. Don Quan isnt around you should sit your mother down and tell her you want a serious chat, thatn you think your both drifting apart since Don came on the scene and that you miss her a great deal and that it would mean a lot to you that if both you and your mother copuld reserve one day a week (Any Day) without Don where the two of you can go into town or out for a drink or dinner or lunch or just renting a movie, this will bring you both closer together and im also sorry to say my good friend that your mother is a grown woman and does also need a life (Including social life) of her own and you really should be supportive of this and try your best to get to know Don and get along with him ,i also believe that that would bring you and your mother closer together.

Good Luck Man,

I hope it works out for you all,

Roe

Answer 3

Yeah I felt left out too, was the f*ckin black sheep of my family and everybody treated me like one. So one day I packed my stuff and ran away, never returned since, that was 7 years ago. You either lump it or run too, I am so happy I did.

Answer 4

Have you tried talking to your mother's new boyfriend about this? Perhaps he would care, you never know. It's wrong for your mother to be neglecting you, but you should try to consider her feelings as well. People can lose sight of some things when they fall in love. I hope you have friends. ;)

Answer 5

Well why don't you ask your mom to do things just you and her. Maybe there is a movie you want to go see, invite her to go.Or tell her you need clothes. Come up with some excuses why you guys need to spend time together just you and her and maybe she will get the hint.

Answer 6

You should set your mama down and ask to talk to you for a minute, make sure that you can ask with out making it seem like a right now situation but ask for a time that you and her are alone with each other....

Let her know that you miss her and that you would really like it; if she could think about a way that you and her could have a little bit more time with just you two.

It is hard to feel good about someone else coming between you and mama like that, And it is even harder to want to try to understand. Make sure that you can be honest with her and ask her to do the same, ask her to help you understand how she is feeling so you know that your ok too.

If you are upset this bad it is because you don't understand and like in school, if you don't understand, ask for help; so you'll learn what is expected of you come test time. This is smiler, ....the need to understand ..to accept that things are going to be ok....